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I'm consider myself asexual and I was wondering if anyone else here is. For those who don't know, asexual means you do not experience sexual attraction to either sex.
 

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I know there are others here who consider themselves asexual. For some reason, it's something I've noticed seems more common among younger members.

Personally.. I think I'm the opposite :p. Sometimes I think my sex drive is a little too much.
 

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I'm probably asexual, but that stems more from a fear of commitment rather than a lack of sex drive. I think I've maybe subconsciously blocked any sex drive I might normally have with anyone else.

I know I'm never going to get married. I guess I'd kind of like to have a relationship, but it's something I'm too scared to enter into. It's not something I'm ever going to be able to fix - and I've made peace with that fact, in one way or another.
 

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I am asexual in the sense that I don't get a boner for looking at "fine" women or men. However I don't think I'll ever have sex with a man and I think I'll have sex with a women someday. Anyways being this way really helps me out with the whole no sex (including oral sex) before marriage thing I have going on for me.

I see no shame in sharing that I am asexual and a virgin even if I am a 20 year old guy. There's nothing wrong about either of those. Also if anyone is going to say "But what about reproduction? Mother nature/god/higher power designed us to have sex and reproduce!" Well like I said I think I will have sex one day and I might have children one day too.
 

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I am committed to not marrying. Sometimes I wish I were asexual. Seems like life would be easier. I do feel oversexed quite a bit. I think about it too much.

Ironically, or not, I have a membership on the board at asexuality dot org. Pretty interesting stuff.
 

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I've always wondered, does it count as asexual if you're not attracted to other people, but you masturbate a lot? Or is that just narcissism?
 
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I've always wondered, does it count as asexual if you're not attracted to other people, but you masturbate a lot? Or is that just narcissism?
I guess that depends on what thoughts you masturbate over. If it's another person, the act of sex or any other sexual situation, you may not be quite as asexual as you think - as you are getting turned on by the thought of another person.
 
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I've always wondered, does it count as asexual if you're not attracted to other people, but you masturbate a lot? Or is that just narcissism?
From what I saw hanging around some asexual forum (I think it was asexuality.org, not sure) a lot of asexuals do masturbate though they usually don't masturbate to any particular thing. Most get pleasure out of it, others just do it as a way to keep the plumbing clean. And some, such as myself, don't masturbate at all.

Anyway, in case anyone couldn't tell from that last sentence I'm also asexual. Though technically you're not asexual if you have a fetish. Asexuality is the lack of any sexual attraction. Those of us in this topic are more correctly termed exclusive paraphiles (there's three levels of paraphiliac attraction: secondary, in which you just engage in the fetish on an occasional basis but are still primarily attracted to humans. Preferred is where you can get aroused by traditional sex but will incorporate your fetish into sex if given the opportunity. And exclusive, where the fetish is your sexuality). Though as far as human attraction goes asexual wouldn't be incorrect to use.
 

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I do it over diapers but I am hating it since its not really innocent at all. Not for a toddler anyways and my regressive age is around 3 or 4 years old. being a AB and a DL conflict with each other like that. This is how I know I can have sex but I guess it might take diapers or something related to it to get me ummm.. excited.
 

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I keep considering myself as undecided/confused but the more I think about it the more I think I might be heading this way (asexual). I don't particularly have an attraction to men or women and I don't masturbate. I'm also in no hurry to do either.
 

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So you guys all reproduce and create offspring without the need for a partner? o_O
 
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I do it over diapers but I am hating it since its not really innocent at all. Not for a toddler anyways and my regressive age is around 3 or 4 years old. being a AB and a DL conflict with each other like that. This is how I know I can have sex but I guess it might take diapers or something related to it to get me ummm.. excited.
Try to keep the sexual side of it separate from the regression side.

Before you get yourself padded up, consider whether or not you want it to get sexual or not. If you feel it might go sexual, don't act in a regressed state.
 

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Nice to see I'm not alone feeling asexual.

When I was in school and that my classmates began looking at girls, I didn't. I thought it would come later. But it never came (at my parent's great dissappointement)

I never had any interrest in girls (or even boys). I've had some "crush" on a few people (both girls and boys) but it was not sexual, I just liked them, found them cute but never intended to have sex with them. I've never had a girl friend (well once I tried - a girl I knew told me she was in love with me, I told her I wasn't but that we could try - it lasted a week, I felt so uncomfortable when she hugged me ( I was almost feeling like being rapped) I didn't know how to act,...

About masturbation, yes I do it, while thinking to diaper related stuffs.

What's sadden me is that I feel so alone and have no perspective of living with someone. The best would be another diaper wearer but I don't believe it will happen. I'm not so optimistic.

Anyone feeling the same?

Take care,

Crohnick
 

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I used to kinda be asexual. It's not that I wasn't attracted to girls, I definitely was, but I wasn't interested in having sex itself at all (not that I had the opportunity anyway). I think it's because so many people seem to prefer sex to love... or at least people generally act as if that's the case, even if it isn't. Anyway, I think about sex now sometimes, but it still annoys me a little bit.... as if I'm giving in or something.... I dunno.... It's complex.
 

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So you guys all reproduce and create offspring without the need for a partner? o_O
Ummm, no we just have no sexual attraction to either sex. Your taking this whole thing way to literal Sawaa.
 
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I was probably asexual in middle school and early high school. I dated guys because that was what you were supposed to do, but I didn't do it with much enthusiasm.

I think a lot of people who describe themselves as asexual are probably like I was in high school. Their peer groups, whether it be high school or college or even work, are people who they don't really fit in with and don't have much in common with so they don't see anyone who they'd ever want to date and feel like they have no sexual interests. I was never sexually attracted to women since I'm straight, but I had no interest in dating most of the guys in my high school; they seemed immature and annoying, and the ones who didn't come across that way were not people who I found particularly physically attractive. Alas, that's the way it often seems to go.
 

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I think I'm asexual, or at least I think that's what my profile says.

Men or women don't turn me on, just in themselves. I can imagine having sex with either sex, but it wouldn't do much for me, I'd probably have to think of something else to stay turned on. Having sex with a guy would probably be more sexual though, just because being gay is more naughty than being straight...

I only get crushes (so far) on girls though.

My fetish definitely is my sexuality, I'm just glad that the diaper stuff isn't my whole fetish.
 

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If by "experience sexual attraction" we mean getting horny at the sight of someone hot, or fantasizing erotic encounters (and therefore getting horny), I don't think I've ever experienced anything like that. You can put me in front of a naked "sex symbol", and I would be like "so what?". I've also never been interested in porn, I honestly always found it quite bad taste. Does this make me asexual?

The idea of having a partner who can't live without sex (like the vast majority of people is in this world seems to be) is in fact one of the main reasons for which I've always been single and happy to be so. Not that I wouldn't like to experience some couple life, and not that I'm absolutely against the idea of having sex with someone, simply it's not at the top of my priorities list, probably not even in the first 10.

Dreams, being a subconscious activity, can be imho a reliable sign of the direction that our mind takes when we get aroused. And the rare times I experience wet dreams, they're always connected with diapers, caused by a lack of them to be more exact, and thus trying to compensate with onirical diaper experiences the lack of real experiences. Needless to say that if I regularly wear diapers I don't experience wet dreams at all. That's basically why in my profile I put "DL" as my sexuality, meaning that - until now - diapers are the only thing that my body and my mind gave me clear proof of being sexually attracted to.
 
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So you guys all reproduce and create offspring without the need for a partner? o_O
Yeah, I bud off about once every month. Also, if I get cut in half both halves will regenerate.

Seriously though, you're thinking of asexual in the biological sense. We're using the psychological term here which is used to describe a person who feels no sexual attraction.
 

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Interesting question. I don't actually consider myself asexual, but I had a close friend ask me if I was, during one of our serious conversations. Having read up a bit on asexuality after she stunned me with that question, I decided that I wasn't asexual, but I probably have a significantly lower sex drive.
 
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