Because I no longer get to wear very often during the week, the weekends are pretty much all I have, so I've opted for a Northshore Care Air Supreme. That way, if my wife wakes up, she won't be able to hear the telltale crinkle as I walk. Yes, it's a thick diaper--especially when wet, as it is now--but with a long t-shirt on, you cant tell.
Short answer: Northshore AirSupreme, wet, in stealth mode.
I am actually trying to make my new tykables leak today, also trying to see if the padding will fall apart and clump up.
I put a dry diaper on this morning at 8, I’ve been running errands, doing yard work all day, i m pretty wet but so far no leaks and from what i can feel the padding has stayed in place