- Adult Baby, Diaper Lover, Incontinent, Private
Yeah we are who we are I could never tell my therapist as she’s obsessive of my past and she’d freak outEveryone has made some great points and I tend to agree with all of them.
Almost every ABDL I know is always looking for the "smoking gun" source of our love of diapers.
Interestingly, a therapist once asked me a disturbing question.....
"If I could discover the source of these feelings toward diapers and regression fantasies, and I found a cure for you, would you allow yourself to be cured and be rid of these babyish feelings forever?"
Until she asked me that, I had never thought about it. Wow! That blew my mind!
No I told her, I NEVER wanted to be "cured" of this: I LOVE MY DIAPERS.
Yeah look at my other reply that sums it up for most peopleIt takes a GOOD doctor to overcome the overpowering desire to "fix" everything, and take into account of and accept what their patients do and do NOT want to "fix".
This moral dilema is difficult to relate to when considering something we all like and don't want "fixed", but it also must apply to things that are more commonly seen as needing to be fixed, like smoking or obesity.
That's how I think about it too. Sort of. Did I already have an interest in diapers/nappies and remembered specific events like having my nappy changed for that reason, or was it remembering things.It’s kind of the chicken and egg scenario. Do I remember diaper events because I liked them, or do I like diapers because I remember diapered events?
I did that too. Apparently. I don’t remember it specifically, but I have been told that I put things in my nappy.My wife says remembers being a rebellious two-year-old and taking things from her parents, small things like batteries and coins, and putting them inside of her nappy!