Anyone know how to find someone on fetlife?

KittyninjaW

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I have been looking for a while but have had nothing and I am not sure how to go about this. Of course I am a socially awkward aspie and I don't know if I am doing something wrong, and I don't tend to understand it.
 

Mfluder

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I go to fl events to meet people. Works well so far.
 
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JustC

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Well, my 2p's worth.

I tried placing ads, with limited success, I will however add, that I'm not an AB, and this might make it more complex, but I think the following might help.

Don't advertise, don't place ads looking for a partner.
Make sure your profile is well written, giving info about you, your IRL interests, and a little about your kink interests. Pics are good too, they don't have to show your face
Join groups that interest you, not just kink ones, and interact with people
Ask questions. This and this alone, led to my now GF & Domme messaging me.
 
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LittleMaya

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A specific name or person, or a kind of person?
Fet doesn't have any type of multiple filters. (Example: "from Missouri" and "cisgender male" and "likes diapers". )
You can search locations, example: "Kansas City".
You can search kinks, example: "Getting your diaper changed by your girlfriend" to find others who are into that.
But you can't achieve both criteria simultaneously.
Searching for a specific screen name is equally easy, but people obviously don't use real names.
 
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