Anyone into public diaper exposure/messing/embarrasment? I share my thoughts and ask for yours.

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Okamiyasha

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Just wondering if any of you fine guys/girls enjoy the feeling of public exposure or wearing of Diapers?

If so then do you ever purposely expose your diaper to another person (or perhaps soil it in public) eg. bend over to pick something up and the diaper is momentarily exposed or maybe asking a clerk what size diaper would be good for you etc.

I'm starting to get into the whole Public Humiliation/Exposure thing and was wondering of the experiences of others.

Anyway I'll get the ball rolling:

This is my first moment when I was fairly certain someone knew I was in diapers (and I mean proper thick tape-on diapers, not pull-ups). Well I walked into the store to stock-up since I had run out a little while ago (apart from the one I was wearing) and heading to the incontinence isle in the chemist I was frustrated to find someone re-doing the entire display of the diapers. Well I hung around the area for a while, diapered and really itching to get home and back to privacy since I kind of maybe sort of had just given myself the castor oil treatment. Well anyway, walking around the different shelves for a while I ended up wetting myself a few times and still the person hadn't moved. I was really really starting to have trouble with the Castor Oil so I resolved to swallow my pride and go up to the Incontinence shelf and begin browsing for what I wanted. The clerk had asked me twice already whether I needed a hand since I would walk past every now and again but I always responded with a polite, "No thank you,". Well I was fed up and after jumping from foot to foot right next to the clerk I finally spied a package, nearly tripped over as I backpedalled with my prize (much to the amused look of the clerk) and went to the checkout.

There was a line at each one. SO here I am holding a pack of very obvious adult diapers hopping from foot to foot trying to fend off the effects of the Castor Oil all the while thickly diapered. Finally a clerk opened up, I pretty much slammed the package in her face and after a brief annoying conversation about the weather (why must they make friendly conversation) I was out the door and on my way back to the car.

About halfway back to the car however, I lost the fight. Filling my already wet diaper and pretty much expanding my butt by about 3 inches, the castor oil had its desired effect.

Needless to say it was a very pleasurable ride home after trying to hold it in that long and to be perfectly honest when I look back, I was loving every second of it.

Any other stories you want to share or tips in diaper exposure you'd like to give? All responses appreciated.
 

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Good luck but remember to be respectful. People dont want to smell a dirty diaper or overly exposed diaper. In the exact same way your wouldnt want to see a dildo and here about someones rough anal sex.
 

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Hi Okamiyasha and welcome to ADISC! A lot of people here like humiliation, but within certain boundaries. Exhibitionism is generally frowned upon for reasons I will elaborate on below.

Exhibitionism is ethically problematic because you're involving other unwilling, non-consenting individuals in your fetish. First of all, it's common courtesy not to expose your underwear in public, regardless of whether it's disposable or not. People don't want know *that* much about you, and it's rude to deliberately expose people to it. Second, messing in public on purpose is definitely not ok. Consider what would have happened if you had lost control in the store. Think about how supremely unpleasant it would be for everyone in the store, not least of all the clerks and cashiers who have no option but to stay there in the midst of the stink. It's one thing if you're IC and can't control it, but deliberately taking a laxative before going out with hopes of publicly soiling yourself crosses a line that should not be crossed.

If I may suggest an alternative: try finding someone you can role play with, someone who will consent to be involved in that sort of thing. Then you can act out all the humiliating scenes you want without pushing your fetish in the faces of unwilling participants. Or, what about just going out and buying diapers and allowing people to see you? Isn't that embarrassing enough? Letting people see that you're buying diapers a bit less intrusive than letting people see that you're wearing diapers.
 

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Hello. Thanks for the replies. I didn't actually mean to get that close when I went out in public, usually it takes a lot longer to work on me. I only really wanted to stock up and go home, then experience it. That was just my first experience of ever being in a situation similar to that, and I did not mean to say that everybody should do it or that it's the right thing to do. Looking back I am aware that it would have been unpleasent for all those concerned but just felt like sharing.

Thanks for the welcome!
 

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I've never worn a messy diaper in public (I rarely wear a messy diaper at all for that matter), but I've either worn a wet diaper, or actually wet in public, a couple times.

Once I had on a Depends while I was shopping and had to pee while I was in the store, so I just stopped what I was doing and let it go as slowly as I could. I didn't have to go too much, so it was still as easy to hide as it was before I wet it.

The other time, I hung out with an AB friend of mine who used to live in Omaha, and that involved a couple of incidents where I could've been caught. Since I didn't have any diapers to bring with me to Omaha, he brought some with him to give me, and since he was wearing one, I asked him if he'd be willing to change me into one while we were out driving around. I was hoping we could drive to his place and he could change me and hang out with me there, but his parents were home and he didn't want to have to go through the hassle of explaining who I was, how we met, etc. so he told me that since it was dark, he knew a place where he could pull over and change me. It wasn't a particularly secluded area, and several cars passed close by, but none of them stopped to see what was going on. We drove to a parking lot after that, and spent several hours just talking about whatever was on our minds, and in the course of that time, I wet my diaper enough that it probably would've leaked if I wet it anymore. We finished BSing and said our goodbyes for the night, I got in my car, and realized that I didn't have enough gas to make it out of Omaha, so I had to stop and get gas in a soaking wet diaper. I didn't have a credit card at the time, so I had to waddle into the gas station and pay cash. I'm not sure if the cashier knew I was diapered (and completely soaked) or it's just how she was, but I noticed that she had a smile on her face the whole time I was in there, and it seemed as though she was looking toward my waist a lot.

I'm definitely not a fan of humiliation, but I think there's a very slight amount of exhibitionist in me. There's a part of me that wants to keep it totally hidden, and another part that figures that as long as it's noticed by somebody who doesn't know me and won't say anything to me personally about it, it doesn't matter if they know or not.
 

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I'll be blunt here...
It's YOUR fetish, DON'T force it down other peoples necks!
This sort of "fun" is exactly what gets the AB/DL community a bad reputation.
 
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people who do this type of thing and get seen normally give us a bad name and thats why we don't really like to do it... I went to school with someone who was IC and it was known he was. His teasing was relentless. I shared a bus with the kid and one day on the bus. He.. Messed as people call it. It stunk up the bus for the while 45 minute ride and was hell... This was when I was 12 and didn't know I was a TB just those slight desires here and there. But I never teased him. I did have to suffer that bus ride though. Think about other people before you do something like this. Now its one thing cause he couldn't help it. but if someone who can help it did it... Then thats not right. At all. So please think about other people.
 

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I'm not even into wearing out of the house. It's not so much that I care what others would think. It's more A) I would feel far too anxious to enjoy it and B) I worry more about putting others who might see in an uncomfortable spot. At home, I can be me and relax; that's enough in my book.

Again, this is just one person's opinion. ^^
 

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I agree with pretty much everything that's been said so far. I may have wrongly worded my first post and for that I apologise, I kind of just assumed that that was what most people on here would appreciate. Stupid me just trying to fit in!

The story was true however but I'd still like to clear some things up:
1. I didn't purposely decide to go out in public after taking Castor Oil, it was more of a bad decision on my part. I took it and then put on a diaper while noticing it was my last one, so I decided to go get some and it was only meant to be a quick in and out sort of thing.
2. To be perfectly honest I get hugely embarrased just buying say Goodnites even though I'm not in the intended age group on the packet. I always think that someone will figure me out.
3. And lastly I apologise if I offended anyone with my post. It (like my decision to go to the Chemist) was not well thought out or very logical :/

I'm more in the Diaperfur side of things to be honest, but I still hope we may continue to communicate and live alongside each other as I'm sure you normally would do.
(That last line made me look quite political and informed... I like it :D)

Regards
Okamiyasha
 

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Ah....that's okay. I've worn out a few times and it's always a rush. I do it in the winter when I can wear a coat which will cover the bulge. Still, I know I'm diapered and it's fun. I've even worn a wet diaper out on the bike trail under my baggy shorts. They're black so they don't show what's underneath them. The air rushing through feels good, and there's that whole feeling of getting away with something.
 

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I just love to wet in my diaper while having a perfectly adult conversation with someone who isn't aware of what I'm doing. I always wear a cloth and disposable with plastic pants over those, just to be sure there are no leaks.
 

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I like to go out in diapers, it's a rush that i enjoy very much. i do enjoy messing in public, however, i will not go into stores or be around groups of people, instead, i enjoy it at the park. the park is big, open, nobody to really smell it, and people are far away. people avoid other people, so nobody is going to walk up to me while i'm sitting by myself at the park on a bench, so i really don't see it "involving" other people, but there is always that ever so slight chance i walk past someone on the way to my car.

the worst scenario i've been in so far though, was while i was getting gas. i went in, paid the cashier $40, and went out. while pumping gas, no one else was at the station, so i decided to do my dirty work. right after though, my pump stopped working. i couldn't get it to pump gas, and i had pumped less than half of what i put in. i wasn't about to waste over $20, so i had to walk in to ask him to change it from pump 5 to 7. it wasn't so much as walking in, just poking my head through and asking him to put the change on 7. when i turned around though, several people were pulling up so i had to hastily finish pumping.

did they smell it? probably not, but if they did, whatever. i don't really care and neither should they.
 

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I don't like messing do wont do that but I've been out in a diaper and wet loads, but that's just down to enjoying a wet diaper. Though I do like a bit of humiliation an exhibition. My long time fantasy would be holding my daddies hand in the shopping centre in my shortalls with a suitably cute tshirt on, and to have an accident in my training pants, to which my daddy would talk to me disappointedly and tell me that I've got to go back in diapers and put me in one.

Like I said at the beginning though, it's only a fantasy as it wouldn't work like that in real life or would I like other people to see it (even though that would be the big turn on for the scene) the closest I've got would of been in a service station, I got out of the car and took my hoody off, pulling my tshirt up and exposing the diaper just as people got out of a car in front of me (in my defence, I didnt see them pull up into the space lol)
 

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I don't usually side with the "AB/DL people give us truly incontinent people a bad name" criticism of people who wear diapers recreationally. I do have a bit of a problem with people wearing dirty diapers in public because I am sometimes bowel incontinent and absolutely hate it when I am among other people after filling my diaper. I wouldn't want anyone to think I was in that state for the fun of it, and as others have said it is almost impossible not to let the fact you are messy impinge on other people. In private I just take the view "S**t happens and get cleaned up without too much worry, but it really is difficult to manage this kind of thing away from home and there is every difference between a short planned recreational walk where someone might mess for pleasure and having the kind of accident in public that makes you feel ashamed and vulnerable (even although you shouldn't).
 

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Perhaps the way to think about it is, what would be normal for an incontinent person who was out in public in diapers because they need them. They would probably try not to let their diaper show but not necessarily be obsessive about hiding it if they were comfortable with it. Much like any other underwear I guess. Wetting is generally discreet enough and there's no need to change unless there's a risk of leaking or a noticeable smell. However, if you had a messy accident in public you would want to excuse yourself from whatever situation you were in and find facilities to change as soon as possible.

So, wear them as a person who needs them and isn't unduly concerned by the fact would do. Anything more obvious than that is probably exhibitionism and forcing it on others.
 

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yes one time was really embarrasing. I was shopping at the supermarket,just as i was about to check out, I realised i had forgotten something got out of line,and as i went for the item,i started wetting my diaper. To make matters worse,i had to bend over for the item,so my diaper was sticking up about 2 inches, and two girls walked right behind me, they gave me a wierd look,and i heard them laughing when they went to the next aisle,totally embarrasing,so i got up and pulled my pants up to cover my diaper
 

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I have had true fecal incontinence problems and I do wear diapers out under my pants almost daily as a precaution and often use my diapers for wetting because I have to but I have been in some awkward situations where I have filled the rear end of my diaper due to miscalculation or whatever. It is not something I would recommend especially if you are not diapered properly but you can take some precautions which are healthy ways to not effect others. I have Organic Chlorella every day which is a body detoxifier but also has the wonderful effect of pretty much eliminating most of the smell of messing. I highly advise this for health purposes anyway but as a diaper wearer it is a confidence builder so that you know the smell is pretty much under control. It is not "the answer" but it is a good thing to know about if you do happen to mess in public by mistake or otherwise. The other comment is correct. Remember to have respect for the people not involved in our world. It is quite abstract for many of them and best to stay within the community on this topic.
 
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reading these replies really opened my eyes, thanks guys i regularly wear mess and wet in public but never in confined spaces do i mess if i know i gotta be in close proximity of others i dont mess but in open spaces thats a diff story, though the main excitement for me is wearing a thick enough nappy that its bulge is still visible through my pants although the actual nappy itself doesnt actually get exposed many people have noticed im wearing i know this because some people actually make known out loud im wearing a nappy some whisper to the person next to them but some are quiet loud. they think theyre embarrissing me well they actually are but i really enjoy every minute of it
 
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I'll be blunt here...
It's YOUR fetish, DON'T force it down other peoples necks!
This sort of "fun" is exactly what gets the AB/DL community a bad reputation.

chill give him a break.:chillpill:
 
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