According to Wikipedia, there are 8,682,661 people in New Jersey (2008 estimate). If you deduct yourself, I reckon that there are 8,682,660 people in NJ alone, and even more in the "NJ area", if you include places like NYC.
That said, please be aware that this isn't a dating or hook-up site, because it's open to people of all ages. Instead of asking for locals, why not introduce yourself so we can get to know you first?!
Peachy