- Diaper Lover
Some back story to my current situation. My wife and 8 I have been married for almost 3 years now and have dated for 7+ years prior. She has known about my diapers since like the first week we dated. She accepts it and even wears the always discreet boutique pulls ups almost daily once she gets home from work. So she definitely doesn’t have a problem with diapers. She is okay with me wearing and all that but she does not find it a turn on when I wear. Totally understand where she is coming from as this is sorta my thing anyways so never would be mad at her for not being all turned on when I wear. However, I have documented OAB and occasional leaks here and there and she knows of that. Been to the doctor for it and gave me some meds and they did not help. We always joke that eventually I’ll be fully incontinent which I’m actually okay with. But the issue I am having currently, is that I want to go 24/7 or as close to that as I can but my wife would not be happy if I just did that and the intimacy would drop off. My thought is, should I start to play it as if my OAB and occasional incontience is getting worse and have on purpose “accidents” to sell it so that I can start 24/7. She has always told me that if / when I did eventually have to wear 24/7 that she would be totally accepting of it because of the need for them. So should I do it or just wait it out until it actually does happen?