I read through it all, which I did not think I would. That was a very interesting piece, thank you, Dark, for posting this. I would also like to state that I do believe Felstorm is right. A fetish is supposed to be nothing more than a side-note while examining your sexuality. If this is not a fetish, then it should be a side-note while examining your life, and the motives which fuel this life.
I feel as though, instead of a side-note in Mr. A's life, infantilism was taking over his existence. Now I am not one to say that he should not do this, but on a practical note, he just shouldn't. I say 'on a practical note' because the life he is trying to live is not an extremely realistic one. If he can obtain that life, then I am proven wrong, but common sense tells me that the amount of money one needs to have, plus the amount of support, plus the amount of solitude that one needs to have, is not yet in reach, and common sense also tells me that it will never be in reach.
The man did need some help in rearranging his life on a more realistic scale.
FullMetal