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(I'm trying to tread lightly based on the nature of the issue I am having):

I can't help but get an erection when wearing my diaper, even if I have "relieved" myself prior.

As a result, I am in constant pain, and I cannot get it to subside...:frown:

This is making it very difficult to enjoy wearing my diaper...
 

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All I can really tell you is to relieve the tension again, or do it the first time when you put the diaper on. I had the same issue when I was younger as well. The more often you wear and as you get older this "problem" will diminish.
 

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Yes just like barkd74 said.

But don't assume that this is going to happen right away. It took me about 2 or 3 months of wearing about once every other day and I think I had worn 24/4 for 3 weekends before there were noticable changes in the regularity of this "problem". And keep in mind that everyone is different so it may take just as much or way less time for you.

Good luck with it and I hope it get solved sooner for you than it did for me
 

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Nuisance erections are something that just about every male gets to deal with. But accompanied by pain? It may be time to visit a doctor. Erections shouldn't be painful by themselves. If, on the other hand, the pain is caused by your trying to "point down," my advice would be: Don't do that.
 

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The pain comes from the increasing "hardness" of the erection. As the erection gets harder and harder, it begins to hurt.
 

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I used to have this problem a little. Wearing more often, but also meditation or breathing exercises helps a lot. Clearing your mind will help reduce the context for arousal.
 
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I used to have this problem a little. Wearing more often, but also meditation or breathing exercises helps a lot. Clearing your mind will help reduce the context for arousal.

How frequently, on a day to day basis, are you "relieving" your erection? If you're doing it too often, you could be getting some pain when fully erect. That would be a sign that it's time for a break.

If it's anything else or doesn't go away, see a doctor.
 

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just keep dressing the salad every few hours and it should be fine, maybe add some oil to the salad beforehand to make sure more dressing is expelled, im in metaphorical hell, if you know what i mean ;).
 

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If you do it too often in the diapers, it often will cause it to be painful when erect. Calming the mind down is usually more effective that fulfilling Mr. Willy's desires. Once wearing diapers becomes more common place, I find that its not as much of a big deal so you get less erect. When it is very prolonged periods of time before you put on a diaper, then that's part of it too. I used to wear very infrequently and had the problem, only calming and clearing the mind helped me at that stage of my DL life.
 

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Point your meat up bro, that way it wont hurt, hopefully you are not so hard that even that hurts. It would also help to distract yourself from the diaper, like by playing video games.
 

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maybe try to stick it up, unless your well endowed, then if it sticks out of the waistband, cover it up with something so you don't have to look at it every time you look down. if you unatrualy hard, then dont put it in the diaper itself, it could either tear through the diaper with the wrong movement, or make the head sore.
 

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That's the thing; when its pointing up, it sticks just out of the padded, absorbent area. (Never out of the actual diaper) This means that when I pee, it either hits the cloth, or, if I'm lucky, just accumulates in the upper portion of the diaper, not being able to travel down onto the rest of the diaper.
 

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That's the thing; when its pointing up, it sticks just out of the padded, absorbent area. (Never out of the actual diaper) This means that when I pee, it either hits the cloth, or, if I'm lucky, just accumulates in the upper portion of the diaper, not being able to travel down onto the rest of the diaper.

Well first off, get a diaper that rides a little higher in the front. I'm somewhat between sizes, and can reach past the padding in diapers from the smaller size. You can't wet a diaper in that position anyway (if you can manage to work the plumbing) without leaking badly, even while standing.

So get larger diapers, and then you'll just have to give it more time until your body starts to adjust to having that which it has been craving. Could take months. Don't even bother trying to wet until you can get pointed down at least somewhat comfortably. Forcing urine through a kinked urethra WILL bruise the lining and will at least be painful for awhile.
 
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That's the thing; when its pointing up, it sticks just out of the padded, absorbent area. (Never out of the actual diaper) This means that when I pee, it either hits the cloth, or, if I'm lucky, just accumulates in the upper portion of the diaper, not being able to travel down onto the rest of the diaper.

Okay so if, as you're implying, you're keeping it pointed down to stay in the diaper even through an erection, it's going to hurt like hell. Don't do that.

The problem you're talking about can be fixed by waiting a few moments. In fact, relaxing to pee is one of the better ways to get rid of an erection. If you don't actually pee but just relax a little bit at a time and let it come naturally, it will slowly lower and, if you need to, you could then point it down once the erection has lessened.

Try experimenting, breathe deeply, count slowly in your hand and learn to calm yourself. And for goodness sake don't try and keep it pointed down in the middle of an erection, your'e just gonna cause yourself agony.
 

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after you get more used to wearing, there should be less sexual hype.

It would also help to distract yourself from the diaper, like by playing video games.
i agree, distractions are a good route.

I usually only wear at night, and it can be a bit of a problem at night when distractions aren't exactly abound.
I find that hypnosis works great for this...not for any subliminal message or anything, but it distracts you and relaxes you at the same time.
 

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I used to have the same problem. It goes away once you get used to padding yourself up. Sometimes, you have to put it on with your ding-a-ling pointing up and adjust it downwards once it calms down.
 

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When I was your age, I solved this with diapers and Might and Magic. Seriously, I think you need to redirect. Nowadays, I think the answer is diapers and Skyrim. For me, at least, all I needed was a distraction.
 

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I used to have the same problem. It goes away once you get used to padding yourself up. Sometimes, you have to put it on with your ding-a-ling pointing up and adjust it downwards once it calms down.

Exactly.

or consume some saltpeter ;) (that tactic has actually crossed my mind more than once... anyone tried it?)
 

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I'm the same, I have to wait for it to subside enough to tape a nappy on, or hold it and or get a nappy on before the flag goes full mast.
 
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