Aby and DiaperSpace

[EpicPie]

Has anyone ever heard of them? I came across aby.com and diaperspace.com while I was googling results for ab/tb/dl's that live in the state of Idaho. Comment.

 

[Peachy]

Aby.com is for adults only (18+). It's mostly a huge gallery site filled with crotch shots and pictures of people who have the desire to show off their miniature penises (100% of those people are >40 years old, hairy and probably creepy). Aby also has a forum filled with 99.9% useless crap, daddy requests and complaints about how people never answer private messages (hardly surprising when one only gets creepy messages in the first place).
Can't say anything about DiaperSpace.

Peachy

 

[Pojo]

For Diaperspace, you also have to be 18+ (but who doesn't lie about that?)...It's essentially a Myspace for diaper lovers...There is also a Diaperbook or something of that nature which it like a diaper lover Facebook

 

[Spirit]

Never really had a good look around either, and by first impressions, I never will. Even if I was old enough.

But funny this topic should be bought up just now... I noticed a car earlier today with the letters "ABY" on the license plate. Quite a coincidence...

 

[Ryan_d]

I have an account on both sites. I never got into diaper space.... becasuse I dont like finding random people that way.

But on ABY I do not enjoy anything there. Everyone is older.. BUT! it is cool to go on there and look at the fourms and events. I was suprised to see there are some events going on near where I am. (Not just *B/DL related)

 

[Nicky]

yeah, ABY can get a little creepy, although it is cool knowing that there are that many people out there (there are tons of members) although most of them are creeps

 

[Trevor]

yeah, ABY can get a little creepy, although it is cool knowing that there are that many people out there (there are tons of members) although most of them are creeps

I really wonder if it's the case that most are creeps or are the creeps just the ones making most of the noise? The posts seem to indicate the former, but the meetings I went to made it seem more like the latter. It has a different mission than ADISC, but I wonder if Aby grew a spine like this place and set standards, how many they'd actually lose?

 

[NEJay]

Aby.com is for adults only (18+). It's mostly a huge gallery site filled with crotch shots and pictures of people who have the desire to show off their miniature penises (100% of those people are >40 years old, hairy and probably creepy). Aby also has a forum filled with 99.9% useless crap, daddy requests and complaints about how people never answer private messages (hardly surprising when one only gets creepy messages in the first place).

Wow, how do you really feel?

On the contrary, ABY is the largest web organization of ABDL people, and is also the largest home for people that step away from the computer to meet like-minded people in real life.

In the past 5 or so years I've been a member there, I've used the site to meet literally hundreds of fellow ABs, many of which have become close lifelong friends. I've used the site to plan trips abroad (why pay for hotels when someone might have a guest room to share? ), attend (and plan my own) AB parties and trips, and for the occasional forum discussion.

In 5 years there, I've never once set foot into the gallery.

Perhaps thinking of ABY as a social networking site is a better view. Sure there are plenty of wierdos there, but they are easily ignored, and the good people most definitely outweigh the bad.

Diaperspace on the other hand is a subset of dailydiapers.com (another adults only site), and have been accused of stealing pictures from people's profiles to be used as website artwork. I'd steer clear. DailyDiapers itself has a good, active forum, but the website is heavily commercialized.

 

[starshine]

I don't mind DiaperSpace every so often, but I get so many messages I just stop going because it's so hard to keep up with. The site is also really slow.

 

[Darkfinn]

Diaperspace is a good way to find people who are local to you... just use caution... there are a lot of pervs out there.

 

[Peachy]

I really wonder if it's the case that most are creeps or are the creeps just the ones making most of the noise? The posts seem to indicate the former, but the meetings I went to made it seem more like the latter. It has a different mission than ADISC, but I wonder if Aby grew a spine like this place and set standards, how many they'd actually lose?

They're not all creeps. I mean my friends list on aby.com is mostly people I know from other sites who happen to also have (had) accounts on aby. You actually have to keep your eyes out for the "good" people, and they do exist, they don't stand in the first row though and cry the loudest. That's indeed the creeps' job, like that one guy that, periodcally, sends me the exact same message about wanting to get in contact. I should block him, but it's a good way to tell how quickly time passes ("Oh, that message again...most have been 4 months already!" ).

Peachy

 

[NEJay]

Did you tell the person "no thanks" the first time 'round?

 

[ballucanb]

I have been on ABY for years, I think that is where I got started on diaper sites, of course I had a few guys who wanted me to meet with them, but I didn't like who they said they were and declined there invitation.

Just because your older dosn't mean your a creep, some of us older people just like to meet new people and share our life experiences, you know you learn by your mistakes and us older guys have been there and done that, and don't want you to have to go thru that also.

 

[Mako]

I gotta echo peachy on this, sure there are some good people on ABY. But the site is notorious for its drama, creepy people, frequent downtimes and absentee administrator.

 

[CarKid]

I'm not on ABY as it won't let me sign up? I am on RuPadded and to be honest it is a whole bunch of creepy people. Alot of them want to try and hook up with me...ewww

 

[WildThing121675]

ABY is a place where you can find creepiest of the creepiest.

Early this year, back in March, I got an IM from a guy there who lived in my state, OH; and he was looking for sex and he even offered me money! Talk about desperate and CREEPY!

WildThing121675

 

[NEJay]

ABY is a place where you can find creepiest of the creepiest.

Early this year, back in March, I got an IM from a guy there who lived in my state, OH; and he was looking for sex and he even offered me money! Talk about desperate and CREEPY!

WildThing121675

Yep. One person on an adult fetish website propositioned you for sex, so therefore everyone on said website is creepy.

The fact is that for many the diaper thing is sexual, and sexual only... And with that fact, websites like ABY are no different than Craigslist, Match.com, AFF, etc. There will be oddballs, wierdos, pervs, pedos, etc. It is up to you, the user, to ignore the idiots (or anyone you don't care for), and utilize the resource to find like-minded people.

I'll reiterate... No, the majority of ABY peeps are most definitely not old, hairy pervs. It is just that those people are the most vocal (as Peachy states above). It is up to you, the user, to network socially with less vocal members that share the same interests as you, and ignore/block the people that deviate from your method of thinking.

There are adults out there that are happy to be paid to be put in a diaper, or pay to be babied (and I am most definitely not one of them), and they have every right to be on ABY (or any other adult web service) to find like-minded individuals. It is up to you to say "no thanks", or ignore them, and move on to bigger and better things... If that isn't your thing.

It is for some people. I say ewwwwww, yuck. But others might not.

ABY definitely has it's faults, and I personally wish it was moderated tenfold more, but it is still a beneficial resourse for the adult ABDL community. It just takes a bit of discretion.

 

[phished]

diaperspace is definitely a good way to meet good people. also the amateur everyday diaper girl pics are a relief from all of the paysite pics.

 

[LilRabbit]

I have an account on aby. I started it when I was younger just because I didn't want anyone using my screen name (Baby Jake is a surprisingly uncommon name, but is still used by people other than me). It wasn't until I was 18 that I bothered even looking there. My inbox was filled with annoying 40+ year olds wanting to be my daddy, even though my profile said I was straight, and specifically stated I didn't want any caretakers of any kind!

I can only say that the people who have contacted me have significantly pushed me away from the site. But I do know it is a decent community if you can find the good people there.

I have no interest in going there though.

As for diaperspace... I've only heard of it. I've never even visited that site. Never had any interest.

 

[ballucanb]

I'm not on ABY as it won't let me sign up? I am on RuPadded and to be honest it is a whole bunch of creepy people. Alot of them want to try and hook up with me...ewww

Aby's servers, and management, are so screwed up, I think if you deleted your account there you would never get back in, I hear people complaining alot about how they can't get back in, ABY at other sites.

If someone sent you a message thru the site you ((might)) get it a few days later, if you got one at all.

And I think it's very true if your young, some old creep will hit on you, and if you add a profile pic, then people won't stop bothering you, I don't have that problem 1, because I'm old, and 2, I don't think I have a pic there anyway.

I'm just waiting or the day when you go to the site, and it says No longer available, or it just dissapears, I won't really miss it.