ABY is a place where you can find creepiest of the creepiest.
Early this year, back in March, I got an IM from a guy there who lived in my state, OH; and he was looking for sex and he even offered me money! Talk about desperate and CREEPY!
WildThing121675
Yep. One person on an adult fetish website propositioned you for sex, so therefore everyone on said website is creepy.
The fact is that for many the diaper thing is sexual, and sexual only... And with that fact, websites like ABY are no different than Craigslist, Match.com, AFF, etc. There
will be oddballs, wierdos, pervs, pedos, etc. It is up to you, the user, to ignore the idiots (or anyone you don't care for), and utilize the resource to find like-minded people.
I'll reiterate... No, the majority of ABY peeps are most definitely not old, hairy pervs. It is just that those people are the most vocal (as Peachy states above). It is up to you, the user, to network socially with less vocal members that share the same interests as you, and ignore/block the people that deviate from your method of thinking.
There are adults out there that are happy to be paid to be put in a diaper, or pay to be babied (and I am most definitely not one of them), and they have every right to be on ABY (or any other adult web service) to find like-minded individuals. It is up to you to say "no thanks", or ignore them, and move on to bigger and better things... If that isn't your thing.
It is for some people. I say ewwwwww, yuck. But others might not.
ABY definitely has it's faults, and I personally wish it was moderated tenfold more, but it is still a beneficial resourse for the adult ABDL community. It just takes a bit of discretion.