Saltedcaramel64 said:
I think the idea of an abdl town is not a very good one. From my observations many abdl people do not get along with each other. There always seems to be a division based on behavior, language, sexuality, gender, religion and politics. Even here there are many threads that devolve into pointless bickering.
If I lived in an abdl town I doubt I could even go into a place to buy a coffee without running into an argument about something. Also Im pretty sure that everywhere would smell at least faintly (sometimes strongly) of pee and poo mixed with baby powder. Just like a daycare. I absolutely hated that daycare smell.
I would much rather live in a place full of regular people in a regular town. I find the people in my town to be polite and friendly and non confrontational. I feel like an abdl town would have activist types going around everywhere trying to enforce their particular brand of how to be an abdl.
Like I said the town we need a charter a code of conduct here a few ideas:
1. No political feuds or public discussion of politics
2. No discussion about religion you are free to practice what you believe if you wish to discuss it you may only do so with members of your church.
3. Diapers are to be changed regularly if in public unless if someone is in a diaper punishment where they will wear a designated outfit letting everyone know.
4. Sexual behaviour is to be kept behind closed doors and done in private light versions of PDA kissing, cuddling, holding hands are fine.
5. Violence is not tolerated and may result in expulsion from the community.
6. If any member of the community wishes to leave they must sign a lifetime NDA to protect the community.
7. Although facilities like a daycare and schools are available it is not compulsory for littles to attend. There may be classes on areas like ‘using your diaper’ or ‘talking like a baby’ for those new to lifestyle.
8. People are not to criticised for not going deep enough into what other people think or vise versa.
9. There will be designated areas in the community for diaper changes and breastfeeding so people who do not believe this should be done in public are not offered (personally I have no issue with women breastfeeding in public but some people do.)
10. Just use your common sense and be respectful of all people.
If you can think of any others I’d love to hear your thoughts.