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Marting

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Ah yes. Finding local people is an issue with Diaper Mates. I'm from England and my wife is from Finland, so we had to do a lot of travelling in the early stages! 🤣
 

PaddedBrony

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Honestly, and this might be a stretch, but occasionally a ABDL will pop up on OKCupid. I’ve seen a few littles on there before as well as furries and whatnot, but it seems like people info more niche and different stuff try there. Honestly, I think OKCupid might be the most up-to-date dating app, and that might play a part in it.
 

PapaBear001

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I just got three actual hits on ABDLMatch but I Iive in a metro area and I did have to go through some dirty bots.
 

StrangelyShapedTree

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In my experience it doesn't matter where you go, you will have a very hard time finding someone into this, who is also compatible with you.
 
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PapaBear001

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In my experience it doesn't matter where you go, you will have a very hard time finding someone into this, who is also compatible with you.
I can agree with that but it doesn't mean we should stop looking. There are a lot of people here that have (I hope) good relationships. Do I think the 23+ yo women I am encountering on ABDLMatch are 100% compatible with me? Probably not but I see the potential of some fun times and meeting some interesting people.
 

StrangelyShapedTree

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I can agree with that but it doesn't mean we should stop looking. There are a lot of people here that have (I hope) good relationships. Do I think the 23+ yo women I am encountering on ABDLMatch are 100% compatible with me? Probably not but I see the potential of some fun times and meeting some interesting people.
But you have to realize that every girl on every ABDL site is getting 100+ messages on each site in a week. Hard to pop out.
 

PapaBear001

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But you have to realize that every girl on every ABDL site is getting 100+ messages on each site in a week. Hard to pop out.
Yup! We are one in a million and there is about a 100/1 male to female ratio. But on the other hand, it is really about if she thinks I can satisfy her needs. Being older plus having more more money and privacy than the average 20 something male, my odds might be better. Besides, some ladies might have a better experience with someone that is old enough to be their father. You'll never find out until you try.
 

StrangelyShapedTree

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Yup! We are one in a million and there is about a 100/1 male to female ratio. But on the other hand, it is really about if she thinks I can satisfy her needs. Being older plus having more more money and privacy than the average 20 something male, my odds might be better. Besides, some ladies might have a better experience with someone that is old enough to be their father. You'll never find out until you try.
Well I am your average 20 something male and pretty fucking poor so you got me there. :cool:
 

PapaBear001

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Well I am your average 20 something male and pretty fucking poor so you got me there. :cool:
I hear you buddy. I lived with my parents until I was 27 and hid my Pampers from them. I worked in factories for years making crap... I mean very little money. I also expect that it is hard to find a one in a 100 million women in a county that has 40,000 people. I live in Baltimore and this metro area does have a bunch.

"There is no try or try not. There is only do or do not." -Yoda
 

StrangelyShapedTree

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I hear you buddy. I lived with my parents until I was 27 and hid my Pampers from them. I worked in factories for years making crap... I mean very little money. I also expect that it is hard to find a one in a 100 million women in a county that has 40,000 people. I live in Baltimore and this metro area does have a bunch.

"There is no try or try not. There is only do or do not." -Yoda
You get it. 25 and trying to leave but barely making enough that I'd be able to survive. Thinking about going to a university for better pay or something...luckily I have a date with a cutie tomorrow who doesn't seem to mind my situation. :)

Ever try Date CGL?
 

PapaBear001

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You get it. 25 and trying to leave but barely making enough that I'd be able to survive. Thinking about going to a university for better pay or something...luckily I have a date with a cutie tomorrow who doesn't seem to mind my situation. :)

Ever try Date CGL?
I have an account on there now but it seems to be more centered around people with IC or disabilities looking for partners. There are a few ABDL there but it is hard to tell without talking to people. We will see and read.
 

tomviper000

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Does anybody else ever feel like a lot of the female accounts on abdlmatch are fake and used to get people to sign up for a paid membership?
 

PapaBear001

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Does anybody else ever feel like a lot of the female accounts on abdlmatch are fake and used to get people to sign up for a paid membership?
There are a lot of bots so unless you are in a highly populated area, it is unlikely you will find a real person. I am chatting up a couple ladies now from Baltimore but I am not sure if they are real or paid actors.
 

RetroGamerGuy

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@PapaBear001 they are probably cyborg humans out to take over the world! No but in all honesty they are almost garunteed actors and bots on that website
 

PapaBear001

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@PapaBear001 they are probably cyborg humans out to take over the world! No but in all honesty they are almost garunteed actors and bots on that website
We'll see. I have a game I like to play in these situations. I'll let you know how it goes. 😁
 

PapaBear001

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I'll let you know after I get results. I will definately explain later. 😁
 

RetroGamerGuy

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Even i am intrigued at this PapaBear001. I joined that site years ago and i STILL cant stop the spam of "girls" messaging me when i went on it a total of 1 time lol
 

PapaBear001

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Well I have two live people I am talking to and they could be anyone and anywhere. But see, I paid for Gold Membership as horney and stupid make great bedfellows. That was a couple days before getting an account on ADISC. So Moo advised me that it was a scam. I paid for it already. One in a billion chance that I find a real dating member. So for a few weeks the conversation is basics. Message responses are every few days. Not a response from someone that "looking" for a date. I got some dates from DiaperMates years ago and although (hahaha...) it didn't get past the first date, they were sure eager to meet me at least. Here, It seems that the topic always deflected back to me. I am starting to ask about their likes. If you expect the worst and get the worst, then there is no problem, just a cat and mouse game. Now if one of them agrees to a date, I would be extremely surprised and if both do... well enter sitcom... 😎
 

RetroGamerGuy

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Lol i actually wanna hear more about this and what goes on (not meaning to pry or anything since we both know its a farce) Im actually genuinely interested to hear more
 
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