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I've known I was DL since before I was 5 (though I obviously didn't have a term for it; it is in retrospect), so my list is pretty long since it covers 30+ years. (Also, I'm DL, so the AB stuff doesn't really apply; hope you don't mind if I post anyway.)

DIY Diapers
Parent discovered diapers
Wet diaper
Messed diaper (just to try it once or twice. Didn’t like it)
Bought diaper sample
Tried to pray away the DL
Went out in diapers
Went to work in diapers
Wet while around other people
Purchased Diapers in-store (was probably 10 the first time; K-Mart)
Purchased Diapers online (was probably 18 the first time)
Purchased Diapers in a medical supply store (was probably 21)
Purchased cloth diaper
Roommates discovered diapers
Full night sleep wearing
Wetting lying down
Wetting while asleep
Lied about reason for wearing (oh, so many times)
Intentionally wet the bed w/o a diaper to ‘prove’ the need
Stole diapers (when I was a kid, and much to my shame now)
Punished for being caught wearing a diaper
Binge/Purge cycle (many, many, many times; not a milestone)
Seriously considered suicide (not a milestone; if you are, please get help)
Found a therapist I could talk to about DL (4th attempt at finding a therapist)
Bought adult diapers (in-store) in a foreign country (Brazil, actually)
Hated who I am for being an DL (still working on overcoming this one, actually)
Realized that being an DL is part of my fabric (my brain knows it; my heart is still unsure)
 
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Bought diapers in stores
Wet diapers
Slept a full night in diapers
Binged and Purged several times
Tried to quit liking diapers
Accepted that I was and AB/DL
Bought diapers online
Tried messing diapers
Bought a paci
Bought a plushie
Went out in public wearing diapers
Bought a bottle
Wet diapers in my sleep
Was able to wet diapers in any position
Bought a cloth diaper
Had a DL roommate
Bought a footed sleeper
 
Here's my list:

DIY Diapers
Purchased Diapers in-store
Purchased Diapers online
Parent discovered diapers
Wet diaper
Messed diaper
Full night sleep wearing
Wetting lying down
Purchased clothing online
Purchased pacifier
Slept all night with pacifier
Purchased bottle
Used bottle
Hated who you are for being an AB/DL
Realised that being an AB/DL is part of your fabric
Binge cycle
Purge cycle
Diaper rash
 
Not so much an AB, I’m more a DL and accident lover. That along with growing up before the internet probably makes mine a bit different.

Still in night diapers, asked mom if I could wear during the day
Wet pants pretending accident
Wet bed pretending accident
Wet makeshift diapers
Discovered incontinence supplies in Sears catalogue
Wet bed in my sleep
Told all to a psychiatrist
Purchased diapers from Sears
Played wetting games with a girlfriend
Wet diapers in my sleep
Realized others have the same interests (huge relief)
Told all to a girlfriend
Regressed back to regular bed wetting
Communicated with other DL's
 
brings back good memories. :cloud9:
 
DIY Diapers
Purchased Diapers in-store
Purchased Diapers online
Someone else obtained diapers for you
Parent discovered diapers
Wet diaper
Messed diaper
24*7 wearing
Full night sleep wearing
Wetting lying down
Wetting while asleep
Purchased clothing (instore/online)
Purchased pacifier
Purchased bottle
Used bottle
Purchased sippy cup
Used sippy cup
Hated who you are for being an AB/DL
Realised that being an AB/DL is part of your fabric
Wearing outside the bedroom
Wearing outside the house
Discovered my AB side and went from DL to ABDL


Additionally I would add

Told a partner/spouse
Had a partner as a caretaker
Lost a partner through my AB/DL kink
 
I copied the whole thing and removed those that weren't suiting.

1. DIY Diapers
2. Purchased Diapers in-store
3. Purchased Diapers online
4. Someone else obtained diapers for you
5. Parent discovered diapers
6. Wet diaper
7. Messed diaper
8. Full night sleep wearing
9. Wetting lying down
10. Purchased pacifier
11. Purchased bottle
12. Used bottle
13. Realized that being an AB/DL is part of your fabric
14. Binge cycle
15. Purge cycle
16. Diaper rash

That makes it seem a rather large number of things done with diapers at the core.
 
Pretty interesting topic that most of us can probably understand/relate to. I'm mostly a DL myself but have some AB tendencies (hence why I consider myself ABDL).

1.) Purchased Diapers in-store.
2.) Wet diaper.
3.) Full night sleep wearing.
4.) Wetting lying down.
5.) Parent (or someone) discovered diapers.
6.) Wore in public/around others.
7.) Wet in public/around others.
8.) Discovered/joined ADISC
9.) Binge cycle.
10.) Purchased Diapers online.
11.) Purge cycle.
12.) Hated who you are for being an AB/DL.
13.) Messed diaper.
14.) Roommates/Flatmates discovered diapers.
15.) Purchased pacifier.
16.) Slept all night with pacifier.
17.) Met up with other AB/DLs.
18.) Realised that being an AB/DL is part of your fabric.
19.) AB/DL has begun to level off having less influence and prevalence in my life which is nice and has lessened stress but I also miss it and am sad I don't enjoy it as much.
 
So this is ridiculously long, my apologies. In chronological order beginning around age 5 (with a lot of these events repeating themselves)

Wet and messed regular underwear (not on purpose)
Realized I liked diapers
Wet and messed diapers
Played with toys in diapers
Caught in diapers by parents
Caught in diapers by siblings
Made my own diapers
Stole diapers
Wore diapers in public places
Able to wet and mess myself in almost any position or situation (not sure if I'm too proud of this, more embarrassed)
Threatened to be put back in diapers by parents due to accidents
Purchased baby diapers in-store
Purchased adult diapers in-store
Took pictures of me in diapers
Hated diapers
Pulled perfectly good diapers I just threw away back out of the garbage can
WTF?, I'm still wearing diapers!
Suffered from illnesses that made IC worse
Found out there are other people that wear diapers and like them
Talked to therapist about my diaper wearing
Bedwetting returned
Accepted diapers
Began wearing diapers to bed every night
Learned how to effectively battle diaper rash
Purchased cloth diapers and plastic pants through mail order
Learned how to launder cloth diapers
Joined diaper wearers newsletter
Met other diaper wearers in person
Got first baby pjs to wear with my diapers
Told a girlfriend I wore diapers
Told a second girlfriend I wore diapers (now my wife)
Wife diapered me
I diapered the wife
Purchased premium diapers online
Joined online forums for diaper wearers
Very little concern to hide my diapers
Wore diapers to work
After numerous tests and drugs, doctor gave me note to purchase diapers tax free due to IC
Began wearing diapers 24/7
Accepted myself as an AB (took a long time for this one)
Wife purchased diapers for me
Purchased AB clothing online
Slept with stuffies
Began using bottles and sippy cups
Slept with pacifier
Purchased and played with toddler toys
Started preferring cloth diapers and plastic or PUL pants instead of disposables

Still have not experiened a professional caretaker, AB furniture or connected with another person who shares similar interests in life who is either DL/AB/IC. That last part kinda sucks.
 
Why am surprised to have not seen masturbated in a diaper on this list?
 
InfantyDen said:
Why am surprised to have not seen masturbated in a diaper on this list?
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Too obvious? Honestly, it's a fair question. I don't know that my list would include it, although it's a significant thing to me. I tend to think of milestones as goals or conscious efforts and that's something that just came as an intrinsic development over time for me, as unavoidable as breathing, just a little less frequent.
 
Amazing thread. It makes me realize how little I have actually done.

Done (in this order):
- DIY Diapers
- Binge cycle
- Purge cycle
- Diaper rash (I better not talk about that; still in the DIY stage)
- Purchased clothing (instore/online)
- Purchased Diapers online
- Wet diaper
- Messed diaper (and I will never ever do that again, this time I mean it)
- Wetting lying down

Want to do in the near future:
- Cloth diapers
- Full night sleep wearing
- Wetting while asleep
(at the moment I'm trying to figure out the proper logistics, like laundry, bed protection etc.)

Also want to do at some point, maybe:
- 24*7 wearing
- Purchased pacifier
- Slept all night with pacifier
- Purchased bottle
- Used bottle
(I don't think 24x7/paci/bottles will be things I will regularly do, I'm just curious)
- Met up with other AB/DLs

Not considering these at the moment:
- Purchased Diapers in-store (I generally dislike stores; even groceries I buy online)
- Someone else obtained diapers for you
- Parent discovered diapers (but my family know that I wear panties and girls PJs, not discovered, I've just decided to not hide it when visiting)
- Roommates/Flatmates discovered diapers
- Made clothing (I suppose skirts made from towels don't count)
- Purchased sippy cup
- Used sippy cup
- Made/purchased furniture
- Used furniture (I have a wonderful girly bed, but it's the bedding, not the bed itself)
- Started bedwetting (why anyone would want this one....)

Can't honestly answer:
- Hated who you are for being an AB/DL (I certainly had bad feelings about it and wanted to stop, but I wouldn't call it hate)
- Realised that being an AB/DL is part of your fabric (At the moment I believe that AB/DL and my non-standard gender situation have made my life better and happier and I wouldn't want to have it otherwise if I'm born again)
 
Been changed by a mommy
Been changed by a daddy
Wear out in public often
Get changed in public restroom
Be changed by some one in public restroom
DIY Diapers
Purchased Diapers in-store
Purchased Diapers online
Someone else obtained diapers for you
Wet diaper
Messed diaper
24*7 wearing
Full night sleep wearing
Wetting lying down
Wetting while asleep *once while drunk
Purchased clothing (instore/online)
Purchased pacifier
Slept all night with pacifier
Purchased bottle
Used bottle
Purchased sippy cup
Used sippy cup
Met up with other AB/DLs
Hated who you are for being an AB/DL
Realised that being an AB/DL is part of your fabric
Binge cycle
Purge cycle
Diaper rash
Started bedwetting *not yet but I've tried befor.
 
Keep in mind I've been doing this since 2001 and I wasn't always just a babyfur, I was originally just another AB/DL of the early to late 00's ;).

So, in the AB(AB/DL) lifestyle, what milestones have you passed?

DIY Diapers: Yep, tried making these back when I was around 4 or 5, didn't work at all :(.
Purchased Diapers in-store: Yep, one of the first AB/DL things I did was walk to Kroger and buy some Huggies Supremes.
Purchased Diapers online: Nope, online AB/DL companies didn't exist back then (earliest I know of was Classy Comfort in 2005ish)
Someone else obtained diapers for you: Yep, I had a friend who was a clerk at the 7-11 and I sent him to buy some when I was sick once, he didn't really know/care.
Parent discovered diapers: Nope, came out on my own and everybody was pretty chill about it
Roommates/Flatmates discovered diapers: never went to college and I don't have any flatmates so this is IMPOSSIBLE :cool:!
Wet diaper: Yep, it was a natural progression after about 2 weeks of wearing.
Messed diaper: Yep, tried it after a few months of wearing and didn't really like it :dunno:.
24*7 wearing: Yep, that was a staple of quite a few school breaks and vacations.
Full night sleep wearing: Yep, when I was home alone I would have a toddler night and fall asleep diapered.
Wetting lying down: Yep, it just kindahappened after a while when I was laying down and needed to go.
Wetting while asleep: It naturally came while I slept diapered, then again I WAS a former bed wetter :eek:.
Purchased clothing: (instore/online): Bought a footed sleeper in Sears for Christmas 2001 as a treat to myself :).
Made clothing: Yeah, I'm actually making something right now!
Purchased pacifier: Of course, toddlers need their Pacis ;).
Slept all night with pacifier: After a few tries I was able to
Purchased bottle: I decided to buy one after about s year of wearing and fell in love!
Used bottle: Why would I just sit and look at it? Of course I used it right after I bought it!
Purchased sippy cup: Never needed one but I tried it out, turns out I love 'em too!
Used sippy cup: It's not for my mantel, of course I used it!
Made/purchased furniture: If by made you mean flipped a day bed around for a crib, then I have "Made" furniture.
Used furniture: Yeah, flipping it around made me get a cramp so I lied down in it afterwords and napped.
Met up with other AB/DLs: Nope, I'm in Indiana (any Hoosier AB/DL will get it).
Hated who you are for being an AB/DL: Never, I've kept it close to my heart since day one and never hated it at all!
Realised that being an AB/DL is part of your fabric: Yeah, I just kinda assumed that after a while :).
Binge cycle: Nope!
Purge cycle: Nope!
Diaper rash: Yeah, we've all put off changing ourselves at one point in time, Don't Lie >_<!
Started bedwetting (why anyone would want this one....): Back when I was a kid I did, but it's never come back.
 
Here's my list :eek:

Acceptance
Purchased Diapers in-store
Parent discovered diapers
Bought pacifier
Wet diaper
Messed diaper
Full night sleep wearing
Wetting lying down
Purchased bottle
Used bottle
Binge cycle
Purge cycle

And I am hoping I can get abdl diapers online and clothing someday, can't wait !
 
this is my list to date...

Purchased Diapers in-store - bought some goodnites...
Purchased Diapers online - oh yes plenty of them...

Parent discovered diapers - live on my own so shouldn't be an issue

Wet diaper - plenty of times... was a bit strange to star with but now no issue
Messed diaper - once didn't enjoy not really for me though...
24*7 wearing - not yet will try when on a week off but this could prove dangerous...
Full night sleep wearing - regularly...
Wetting lying down - first time last night... :smile:
Wetting while asleep - first time last night... :smile:
Purchased clothing (instore/online) - yes... ok adult orientated but girly clothing
Made clothing - printed babyish t shirts... Hello Kitty
Purchased pacifier - yes NUK 5
Slept all night with pacifier - tried but without strapping in it comes out...

Purchased sippy cup - yes
Used sippy cup - oh yes... strange at first but getting used to it...

Hated who you are for being an AB/DL - very often then realise that i'm not hurting anyone and i can do what i want...
Realised that being an AB/DL is part of your fabric - yes
Binge cycle - yes
Purge cycle - not yet
Diaper rash - unfortunately
wearing outside bedroom - not an issue live alone in a large house...
wearing outside - only in the garden and to put trash in the bin... want to go to the shops in them... will try goodnites first as they are quite unnoticeable...

next goal - wear to work... again think i will try goodnites for this
and to meet up with like minded people
 
DIY Diapers
Purchased Diapers in-store
Purchased Diapers online


Roommates/Flatmates discovered diapers
Wet diaper
Messed diaper
24*7 wearing
Full night sleep wearing
Wetting lying down



Hated who you are for being an AB/DL
Realised that being an AB/DL is part of your fabric
Binge cycle
Purge cycle
Diaper rash
 
In chronological order:

Bought and currently drink from a bottle.
Bought cheap diapers in the store.
Bought quality diapers online.
Wet diapers, (Later learned in practically any position except laying back-flat in bed), and can wear them overnight.
Bought and currently use pacifiers.
Bought footie pajamas and an ABDL-specific t-shirt.
Something else.
 
When I first joined ADISC I came to this AB forum a lot but now not very often. Maybe I am more of a mommy than a baby. I have done a surprising number of milestones so I will comment on them now.

What milestones have you passed?

DIY Diapers: Made them from towels or fabric, felt & washclothes

Purchased Diapers in-store: Wal-Mart

Purchased Diapers online: Amazon & Snuggies Waddler

Someone else obtained diapers for you: No. My husband has offered but I haven't taken him up on that. My mom did give me my first incontinent pad though. We never discussed why. She had one she didn't need and asked if I'd like it.

Parent discovered diapers: Not that I am aware of. My mom found me in 6 pair of underwear as a kid though.

Roommates/Flatmates discovered diapers: My kids discovered them. Did not have any diapers in a dorm situation.

Wet diaper: Many times

Messed diaper: A few times. Not for me.

24*7 wearing: For over a year

Full night sleep wearing: Just about every night for over a year.

Wetting lying down: Yes, many times.

Wetting while asleep: quite a few times. Really loved it!

Purchased clothing: Onesie & bibs from Rearz & sleeper from Amazon.

Made clothing: I sew and have sewn myself dresses, pads, & diapers.

Purchased pacifier: From Walmart, Aww so cute & Amazon

Slept all night with pacifier: Sometimes I wake up with it still in my mouth.

Purchased bottle: My husband and I have purchased bottles for each other.

Used bottle: Yes but not every week.

Purchased sippy cup: no interest

Used sippy cup: no interest

Made/purchased furniture. Just storage shelves nothing too AB.

Used furniture: shelves and drawers full of diapers & wipes.

Met up with other: No

Hated who you are for being an: lots of guilt but not quite hate.

Realised that being an AB/DL is part of your fabric: Yes. I am accepting who I am as a DL.

Binge cycle: Maybe. I am going crazy enjoying them.

Purge cycle: not really. Just wishing I didn't have this secret before I found ADISC.


Diaper rash: Yes, not too much.

Started bedwetting: Yes, love it! (Oprah accent)

What have I missed?

Wore to my wedding, my honeymoon, my parent's house, my high school reunion. Etc

What would you count as a milestone?

Nursing my husband and he nursing me. He bought pumps for each of us and I got fenugreek and started producing.

Next milestone coming up is trying the Snuggies Waddlers I have coming.
 
I guess the most notable event would be first realising and then accepting that as an adult, I did indeed want to be in diapers. Thereafter :-

First time in a diaper as an adult
First time wetting a diaper (with difficulty!)
Buying diapers online
Buying diapers in person
Wetting diaper without difficulty
Wearing diapers outside
Wearing diapers at work
First time being put in a diaper by friend
First time being changed
Socialising with other diapered folk
Going 24/7 for a while
Nappy rash (see above)
Realising 24/7 wasn't for me (see above)
Talking to partner about diapers
Partner accepting I like to wear

Plenty of things I'd like to do that I've yet to cross off, mostly of the more kink / sexual variety, so not sure they below here.
 
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