2 Videos Defining AB/DL

Jim100

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Hi there! I'm Riley and I've been making AB/DL related content for the last 10+ years, I haven't posted in a while and wanted to share 2 of my newest videos.

These videos cover AB/DL as a fetish and as an identity, and I'd love to hear feedback and constructive criticism about them! I'm about to have a large amount of attention on my Youtube channel and wanted something that served as a quick way to dispell misconceptions etc.

You can find my "What is AB/DL video" here

and my "Is AB/DL a Fetish" video here

For more context (and some cute pics and stuff) you can read more on my blog, StayDiapered.com

Thanks for your time, I'm posting this in Mature Topics because these discussions can get a little grown-up. Just be polite and understand that I tried to keep the door wide open in these videos, and that the intent is not to minimalize or stereotype any identities or interests, more to explain the diversity of them to the layman.

Cool! Thanks for watching <3

[I've also posted this on DailyDiapers, so pardon for any crossposting annoyances]
Thank You for the videos. I like them, I am much older than most anyone here. I remember when I was loosing control of my bladder and bowel due to MS of which I thought that I strained myself so wouldn't seek medical care; especially since I am a Marine. Wearing a diaper was very hard while in the Corp. I worked for Kodak where I would peddle a bike to and work, keeping a couple diapers in my bike bag. While at work someone went into my bag and told everyone about the diapers. My worst fear was just made. About two weeks later I confided about my diapers to a couple of friends they told me they knew and it was okay because of the physical problems that I have; no big deal to them. They supported me but the jerks in our shop were still jerks. After this I found that talking about diapers is easy and informing the public that wearing diapers is alright for whatever reason a person might have. I don't care if someone knows.
 

RileyKilo

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First Riley I too have followed many of your videos and seen plenty of your pictures, and these are an excellent standard, I thank you for taking the time to make them.

To the content, whilst I agree that there should be an age 'cut off' I think saying you should go away may well be the American way of protecting yourself against litigation? Perhaps softening the approach and simply saying the video is aimed at 18 and over would be sufficient? TBH I think if there is someone of any age under 18 that has started to shall we say found an interest in the ABDL way of life they would most certainly look at the video regardless of the warning.
Yeah, I have to be like the 18+ checker on the trailer for an M rated game. I know there may be underage people looking at my content, I just need to make it expressly clear that I'm not marketing towards or inviting teens, and that the community isn't doing that either. I overplay some of these elements because that's what the audience needs to know and wants to hear, that we're a bunch of adults doing adult stuff with other adults. If this was about liking feet it wouldn't be so important to state that, but since the most common misconception about ABDL involves underaged people, it's super important that I overstate that point.

I think it's really tricky to do positive outreach to underage people, even just with sexuality/identity stuff, but there are resources out there and therapists and parents, none of which helped me when I was a kid granted, but random internet people aren't the ones to bridge that gap. Especially for me, as someone involved in porn, I have to stay 100 feet away from anything underage related online and for good reason.

Thanks for the kind words otherwise. I'm working on some more fun videos as well as more serious topics about the ABDL experience ~ Thanks for watching my stuff!
 
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I just hope you do not run into some "issues" after another inquiry was made to you in some other... "interest" I am not sure if you saw that thread on it or the posts here that got removed but you do well in both worlds. Stay safe~~~
 
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I just hope you do not run into some "issues" after another inquiry was made to you in some other... "interest" I am not sure if you saw that thread on it or the posts here that got removed but you do well in both worlds. Stay safe~~~
Post was removed to avoid hijaking the threat. Nothing more, nothing less. Question was answered and I'm very happy. Case closed and Riley is super cool 🥰👌
 

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Post was removed to avoid hijaking the threat. Nothing more, nothing less. Question was answered and I'm very happy. Case closed and Riley is super cool 🥰👌
ya she is, was nice posting these videos. i even referenced this for a different thread of same theme
 

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Second the 18+ being a great move. We don’t want kids and adults mingling in comment sections and stuff like that. Even if it is innocent it can be taken the wrong way, misconstrued etc.

They also say in the video that ABDL is an 18+ community, so it only makes sense that the comment section is 18+ on the video.

Sure there are aspects of this that aren’t sexual, but you can’t separate the two pragmatically. I guess you can compare it to BDSM stuff, it technically doesn’t have to be sexual either. You wouldn’t want teens at your BDSM party though.
Because I'm over 18 and so is the online community, and I find it important to point out that we aren't and shouldn't be interacting with underage people. For the dual purpose of letting vanilla people know that we aren't in this to interact with kids, and to make sure ABDLs know that if you are an over 18 ageplayer, don't interact with under 18s. I imagine my "stop watching this" will deter underage people to stop as much as age verification on porn sites do, but I want to set the standard that it's not ok to direct media towards or invite underage people to participate. I'm American and we don't mess around with 18 being the hard limit. I'm losing a ton of views and am unable to monetize because of this restriction, it's more important to me to do things right.



^^ this right here. I can't speak to why I like this, I can speak to why I continue to do it, but I try to leave the origin speculation out of the larger conversation because it's so universal. I think the most important lines in this case are "Normal Childhoods are common in AB/DL" which helps avoid the relation to trauma and "I developed this independently without any outside influence" meaning it happened naturally, as it does to many people, often alongside more "normative" interests. I also try to point out that we're all a bunch of responsible adults doing responsible adult stuff, regardless of diapers/how we regress.

Thanks for checking out the videos! More stuff soon, including a much needed "Why AB/DL is an outdated term" video.
You’re disclaimer was not very effective.
 

RileyKilo

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Post was removed to avoid hijaking the threat. Nothing more, nothing less. Question was answered and I'm very happy. Case closed and Riley is super cool 🥰👌
I'm not sure what's going on here :/ Sounds like I shouldn't worry.

In terms of my disclaimer, I feel it's fairly effective, and it's not like i'm posting hardcore content on YT, it's mainly to discourage the Cloth Diaper moms or other randoms from walking into something they don't understand. And also the clear purpose of discouraging anyone from thinking my content is aimed at minors or impersonating minors. Save from getting a tattoo, everything I put out is labeled 18+ in some regard.

If anyone has notes on how they could improve, I'd be happy to consider them.

Thanks for watching and the kind comments again ~
 

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Ignore Charkid: they're new and rather arrogant, judging by their few posts. What Charkid fails to understand is that although a disclaimer does not physically stop minor activity from occurring, it must be noted that in the event a minor and/or their parents decide to pursue legal action for any reason over the video, the video itself serves as legal evidence that adequate warning was given that a certain audience was not desired and duly warned, thus deflating any legal gripe by the litigating party. Sorry for the Perry Mason-esque post...
 
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