Bobsled said:
So far I have tried:
Briefs: Wellness Original, CVS, Tranquility SmartCore
Underwear: Tena Super Plus, Abena Abri-Flex 2, Prevail for Men, Prevail Per-Fit, Prevail Super, Alyne
The urine seems to go about halfway up the front, but less than halfway to the back.
I have some samples I am going to try:
Briefs: Wellness Superio, Molicare, Seni Super Plus, Seni Quattro, Tranquility EliteCare
Underwear: Wellness, Tranquility Daytime, Tena Extra, Seni Super Plus, Northshore GoSupreme
I am wearing them to the office, So, I don't want anything too bulky and noticeable. I'd just like to make the best use of what I am wearing, because discreetly changing diapers is a challenge. The less I have to do that at the office, the better. Because I have an overactive bladder, my usual output is about 100 ml (2-2 1/2 oz). But I've never gotten more than three wettings in the most absorbent of them without leaks. The Abri-Flex claims an absorbency of 1900 ml. I am certainly getting nowhere near that.
Thanks everyone for the suggestions.
I have to say those are pretty much the bottom of the barrel products to be honest. I wouldn't buy any of them (with the exception of Seni briefs but I've heard they've deteriorated in quality recently)
Another thing I've noticed is that you tend to stick to cloth backed. I can assume you're trying to prevent crinkles. Beyond that, they're usually liabilities. The tabs usually find themselves somewhere else. The fabric doesn't exactly allow for ease of movement, so when you toss and turn through the night, your pretty much stretching the fit and possibly find the diaper has come off or moved. Most cloth backed have sweating issues, which to me means that urine tends to seep through the waterproof material into clothing. They also tend to have poor odor control. If you think about it, a breathable diaper is a poor choice for liquid, because liquid can and will always find a way out unless there's complete containment.
Also with the calculation I provided, most store brand briefs hold 1500ml of water. Cut that by 1/4. And You're left with about 400ml realistically if that, and that's by standing up the entire time. If you sit, you will leak when at capacity.
Now about your work, and being able to change at work with ease... Pullups are not any easier to change while in a public restroom, you still have to completely removed your bottom half of clothing to change. With that said, you still have bad briefs so you will change multiple times per day. There's brands out there that last 8-12 hours before needing to be changed. You may think that they're thicker and not obvious, but they're not. Even if they're a little bit thicker, people do not spend their day staring at crotches to see if you're wearing diapers. Everyone has anything better to do. I've been wearing in public with thicker diapers with boosters and I have not once had someone come up to me and point it out. It's all in your head. No one cares.
Do me a favor, go to Northshorecare. Purchase a bag of Northshore Megamax briefs. They're $25 for 10, yes, it's indeed more expensive than store brand when you buy by the case the Megamax cost $2.00 each. Considering you use 3 changes per work day I'm pretty sure you're spending $3-$4 on the 3-4 briefs. Not to mention per 24 hours, 6-8 per day? So depending on the briefs, you're spending anywhere between $6-$10 per day on cheap briefs. However, Megamax is designed to last you 10-12 hours. I personally use 2 per 24 hours. So it costs me $4 a day. They're not much thicker than store brands, but they're designed to hold 6500ml and with that earlier math they'll realistically hold about 2000ml of urine. You won't need to change at work. You can keep a spare in the car, just in case. You'll most likely will be able to go home in the privacy of your own home and take care of it there.
I would also suggest getting snap crotch shirts. I'll recommend a plain one from Tykables because they're designed to stretch and fit softly and snug around the curves of your body and briefs, they'll hold them comfortably in place, and they're easy to open and close, they'll keep them from peeking over your pants so you don't have to worry about being exposed, they're also good at toning down the noise a lot, and by the time you put your other clothes on, they're pretty much undetectable. No they're not just for babies, they are a diaper's best friend.
Don't let the supposedly cheap briefs lie to you. They're not good, they'll always leave you with that insecure feeling. You'll always fear leaks. You'll always worry. I guarantee when you switch to a premium brand, your stress level will disappear. You'll find that you can go about your day without worrying about your incontinence issue. You'll also actually save money over time. You won't have to carry a bag with you every where you go.
Go ahead and give this a try and report back if it actually does make you happier or not.
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