Thanks! Yes it’s a really wonderful gift to have such an amazing friend in my life. He has actually likewise told me personal stuff about his life too - it’s not a one way street. We are closer friends for it.
I wanted to respond that the trip has come and gone now. No major (or even minor) incidents. We ended up having separate bedrooms within the same unit, which kind of rendered the whole conversation unnecessary. Although, I don’t regret telling him about my recent issues as it prodded a broader and interesting conversation. But I wound up having essentially complete privacy which was very helpful on my stress level, even after having disclosed my secret.
As it turned out, wearing those nights did not prove to be necessary as I didn’t have any accidents. I wouldn’t have risked it however, in any case. Plus, haha, I like the diapers anyways
So that’s kind of that. I appreciate all the advice. Helps give some context for future eventualities. I’ll respond re: airport stuff in a separate, new topic I think.