coming out

  1. ozziebee

    How do I come out to my sister?

    My sister will be moving in with me soon, and I feel compelled to tell her about my AB side. She already knows about my nappy wearing for IC, and seems accepting of it. We talk a lot about my IC issues, and we joke about my nappy wearing. Why do I feel the need to tell her about my AB side...
  2. B

    Do I let my girlfriend in on the fun?

    I have been in a relationship with a girl for more than I year now, and I really want to tell her about my ABDL side. I have been super tempted to tell her in the past but could never get myself to. She always likes talking baby talk to me and when I make pouty faces and stuff, but that is a...
  3. C

    Coming out and wearing 24/7

    So recently i've felt trapped because i'm unable to wear in my apartment without worrying about my roomate, i'm trying to decide if i should tell him (my brother/roomate) that i like to wear diapers and move towards wearing 24/7. i know i can get away with it at work but how would i tell my...
  4. TabulaRasa2017

    Confiding ABDL to others can help

    Hi everyone, I hope your Thanksgiving holiday (here in the states) was good and you had good food and company. Not a long thread, but just passing on something I'm learning as I have come to terms with this part of who I am. If you have family or friends whom you trust and who you know will...
  5. BusterBunny

    So, I Came Out To My Mum...

    There will be a TL;DR at the bottom so If you're impatient, go straight to that. To make a long story short, I came out to my mum as ABDL, I may not have picked the best time to do it, but, I did anyway. We were walking back from to shop after grabbing some milk and bread and I told her I had...
  6. Christophuur

    Considering seeing my Counselor/Therapist again

    On a recent post, I was complaining about my self acceptance issues I've been going through that's heavily diaper related. Ever since I've been driven a bit closer to telling my significant other about it. But before I get to that, I've been considering talking with my counselor again. She's...
  7. nightfox320

    Questions after telling my girlfriend i'm an AB/DL

    Hey everyone hope y'all are doing well. So as the title expresses I am now out to my girlfriend. This isn't a new occurrence, it actually happened after about 4 months of dating, if i remember correctly. As of now we have been going strong for almost 9 months. She is very special to me and I can...
  8. T

    I just told my girlfriend...

    I've been dating my girlfriend for about 9 months, and it was going really well. We had been friends for almost 5 years before we got together, so there was a lot of trust and closeness, even before we took the next step. Thankfully, she's a very open person. Open about her wants and needs, and...
  9. B

    Not really sure what to do now?

    hi guys. it's been a while since I've been on the site but I really need some help with something. but before I do let me explain some good news. recently I came out to my fiancé about being who I am, babyfur, little, the whole nine yards. Not only was she kind about it but she actually said...
  10. BlackWing

    Should I Tell Her?

    Okay, I know threads like this are incredibly common around here, but bear with me. Recently, I've been thinking about telling my girlfriend about my AB/DL side. I really hate the feeling of having such a big thing behind my back whilst having a relationship when she's been totally honest and...
  11. T

    Came out to my sister, didn't excpet what I got...

    So I decided to come out to my sister, who I'm not related to btw.. She's someone I look up to as a sister, but no blood relation, and she's like 5 years older then me.. But Ya, I came out to her and she was like "oh, I had a friend who was a little" and she actually sent me a link to this...
  12. S

    Thinking of "coming out" as ABDL to my parents

    I know it probably sounds like a completely stupid thing to do and sounds like something you would do for attention but it's something I've been thinking about for quite a while now. For me, ABDL isn't a sexual thing and I know it's wrong to say that ABDL is a coping mechanism because it isn't...
  13. V

    My BF just came out to me as an AB/DL

    Sooo I'm pretty new to all of this. My BF just came out and told me that he's into AB/DL. I'm kind of conflicted on the topic though. First off I am incredibly happy that he trusted me enough to tell me, but I really just don't know enough to know how to proceed. I've gotten diapered for him...
  14. Sierrapup

    Involvement with non-AB/DL friends...

    So I have my best friend who I finally came out to as AB/DL/Babyfur and he accepts me completely. Not only that but he does treat me a bit more cubbilly and has even tucked me in with my plushie once. ^.^~ So I'm curious... What involvement/limits do you have with your non-abdl friends? (ie...
  15. L

    Hello I'm New... Looking for friends

    Hello I'm Pauly, I'm from Minnesota, USA. I first realized i was "Different" when i was oh i guess maybe 10 or 12. figured out it was Called AB/DL when i was 17. I never told anyone til i was 22 or so... I told my Grandmother(bad idea) LOL, my 2nd cousin, she said it was ok but she acted...
  16. P

    What to say when I tell my partner?

    I'm having a bit of a dilemma about what the best way to tell my boyfriend is. I've seen lots of posts about people deciding whether or not they should tell someone, or what happened afterwards, but not a lot of information on what to actually say. I'm struggling on how to broach the subject...
  17. ThePaddedPuppy

    She deserves to know.. doesn't she?

    Being an ab/dl is a big part of my life. And a big part of me wants to tell my close friend because i feel that i have to keep lying to her to keep my secret safe. I've been debating for a while whether i should tell her or not. I do trust her, but I've heard many stories that make me hold back...
  18. A

    My very first thread.

    Hi all. :) I've just graduated with a music/education degree, am looking at further studies in a different field and considering teaching English in another country. I guess I'm pretty much a garden variety DL and have been that way for 10+ years. I still haven't completely come to terms...
  19. N

    Hey :D

    Hello everyone :) My name is Nolan. I'm about to enter my first year of college, which makes me both greatly excited and somewhat afraid. Mostly the former, fortunately; I'm eager to step into a new stage of my life. Of all the inevitable facts of life, that which is most present in my life now...
  20. chevre

    Would you ever "come out" on social media?

    Just wondering if anybody has, or would, come out on social media like Facebook as an AB/DL? And I'm talking like "real" profile, not an alt diaper-only account. For me the answer right now is "no", but on more than a few occasions I've found myself visiting a page like Bambino Diapers' page...
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