trouble63
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I see this has been discussed before, but I wanted to post because I worried so much about this for so long and the other posts appear to be closed. Also, it seems to be a common cause for concern and maybe this will help someone else.
I have worn to work before, but only for half days. No threat of needing to change. I have not been able to bring myself to just start the day in a diaper and go all day until today.
My strategy turned out to be much different than I thought it would be. I imagined using a thin, discreet diaper with the cloth like backing. However, this morning somthing hit me and I decided that I've had enough of the "little accidents" and other discomfort and I simply stoped thinking so much and acted. After my shower, I put some barrier on and spread a ConfiDri 24/7 out on the bed, situated myself and taped up. I then pulled on a pair of spandex leggings and proceeded to get dressed as usual. Got in the car and went to work.
The leggings took care of most of the crinkle and are holding things in place, but the bulk around my waist seems obvious, at least to me. I put a jacket on as I was working outside. This covered my waist and from there I just did my best to stop stressing about it.
Now 6 hours into my day, I don't feel like anyone has noticed. The confidri has held up well without needing a change, but I did come prepared for a change. The idea of using the confidri was to avoid having to change. So far so good.
I finally calmed my nerves and started to focus on how much I really like being diapered and I'm now fine. A diaper prevents accidents, is much more comfortable and makes me feel better over all (nothing new there). So glad I finally came to terms with this and I feel like I'm much better off. The support I get from ADISC helped me get to this point and I'm grateful for that.
Thanks for listening.
I have worn to work before, but only for half days. No threat of needing to change. I have not been able to bring myself to just start the day in a diaper and go all day until today.
My strategy turned out to be much different than I thought it would be. I imagined using a thin, discreet diaper with the cloth like backing. However, this morning somthing hit me and I decided that I've had enough of the "little accidents" and other discomfort and I simply stoped thinking so much and acted. After my shower, I put some barrier on and spread a ConfiDri 24/7 out on the bed, situated myself and taped up. I then pulled on a pair of spandex leggings and proceeded to get dressed as usual. Got in the car and went to work.
The leggings took care of most of the crinkle and are holding things in place, but the bulk around my waist seems obvious, at least to me. I put a jacket on as I was working outside. This covered my waist and from there I just did my best to stop stressing about it.
Now 6 hours into my day, I don't feel like anyone has noticed. The confidri has held up well without needing a change, but I did come prepared for a change. The idea of using the confidri was to avoid having to change. So far so good.
I finally calmed my nerves and started to focus on how much I really like being diapered and I'm now fine. A diaper prevents accidents, is much more comfortable and makes me feel better over all (nothing new there). So glad I finally came to terms with this and I feel like I'm much better off. The support I get from ADISC helped me get to this point and I'm grateful for that.
Thanks for listening.