well I am a dl not incontinence at all. but I today my package of diapers comes and its coming two days eary and my family also knows about it. they think its totally wrong. its only right if you are incontence or its a temporary medical. they make me feel shame or guit when it comes I say its books but they think no its diapers . I try a lot of ways to seek it in and do it less embrassing as possible, I want to feel like its no big deal and not have to hide it or pretend my family does not know and not get caught. I also think this shame goes into wearing in public everyone here says do it a lot there is no magical way. thanks for the input