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    I have been looking for a mommy off and on for a while. I have had a little bit of interest but when the potential mommy's find out I am completely asexual they lose interest. I want and need to be a baby 24/7 and can not handle the thought of being sexually active with mommy. Am I wrong?

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    I think what you want severely limits your options. There aren't many clear-thinking, functional people who would want a big baby 24/7. You can keep looking or you can adjust your expectations to something less intensely needy.

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    Hi there firstly when you mean 24/7 do you really mean 24/7 literally? As in not going out to work and not having any adult interactions, interests or responsibilities?

    Could you potentially find someone else who is asexual and wants to play the mommy role? Yes maybe you could but they would likely still want some adult interaction out of things. Not mention that if you literally want to be treated as a baby 24/7 then they would have to support you financially which is asking an awful lot.

    I really don't want to sound horrible but I don't want to be dishonest with you, you are going to really really struggle to find what your looking for if this is truly what you want.

    I don't think it's a question of whether what you want is wrong or not, it's not impossible that you may find someone and if they really want the same then great. But in all honestly I don't think there will be a lot of people out there who will want the same. Yes there are women out there who really enjoy the mommy role but the majority of them will still want some kind of adult relationship as well.

    Of course you could potentially find playing the mommy role to little who they are not in a relationship with that does happen, but that would not be 24/7.

    To find someone who is wants to play the mommy role and support someone living as a baby 24/7 and not want any kind of adult interactions/relationship out of the deal is a huge ask.

    Also I don't wish to sound mean but you are still an adult at the end of the day. Being able to regress and enjoy little space is great but you still know your an adult in reality. Why is it you need to be little 24/7 if you don't mind me asking?

    I really hope I haven't sounded dismissive or horrible as that's not my intention, just wanted to be truthful with you as if this is what you have set your heart on you will struggle to find it.

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    I agree with Trevor and BabyBobby. This may be what you would like, but in reality you have almost zero chance of finding it unfortunately.
    I'm sure that there are some women out there who would go for it, but by far the vast majority would also want to have a partner who can satisfy there adult needs as well, and I'm not just talking about sex. As an adult you/me/we/they can all enjoy our little times, but also need a partner who can offer emotional support, make clear adult decisions and function as a part of society, at least most of the time. Bills need paying, decisions need making, repairs and maintenance need too happen, shopping needs doing.

    Most importantly support of each other's needs and problems need attending too. It's not just about you needing to be a baby, but also fulfilling the emotional, physical and psychological needs of your prospective partner as well.

    It sounds like you need a paid nanny and not a partner. I'm not trying to sound harsh, but it comes across as a touch selfish to expect a partner to do all the work for you. But, if it's just a fantasy you're talking about, you're quite entitled to it.

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    Wombat hit the nail on the head: You need a paid nanny.

    Finding a receptive 24/7 mommy just isn't a realistic approach; as Wombat notes, this is the product of a fantasy mindset.

    I've had various nannies or babysitters over the past 30 years; only two or three were prospective romantic partners. Most women who are willing to play the caregiver role don't want sex; they want money. I know many ABs cringe at the thought of paying someone to change their pants and 'play baby,' but that's likely the only way most will find a mommy type.

    Even if you're independently wealthy and unburdened by the necessity of earning a living, there are still many reasons why a partner wouldn't want to spend all day treating you like a toddler. Boredom is a key factor, coupled with the inability to do much in the 'real world' when you're in diapers and baby clothes.

    I cannot think of a single babysitting experience I've ever had that wasn't well worth the money I paid for it, and I've only had a handful for which the mommy or nanny involved did not expect to be paid. I know the truly altruistic mommy-types are out there; I've met a couple. I think you'll search and search to avoid spending money and you may still wind up with nothing to show for your effort. Your time on earth, on the other hand, is finite, and if you wish to experience this rather odd reality before you die, you should probably look for someone who's willing to spend a few hours with you in exchange for remuneration of some sort.

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    When I mean 24/7 I mean that I need a lot of care due to my disability and I can't be left alone long. I am willing to pay bills and such, but I am not able to work and I get SS. I can offer mommy a job caring for me where she could get paid through the agency that supports me because I have Medicaid. I wear diapers but they are provided by my insurance and a doctor's script

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    Quote Originally Posted by CPDude View Post
    I have been looking for a mommy off and on for a while. I have had a little bit of interest but when the potential mommy's find out I am completely asexual they lose interest. I want and need to be a baby 24/7 and can not handle the thought of being sexually active with mommy. Am I wrong?
    This might be a little hard to hear but I hope it will help you.

    Women have needs. They need a way to fulfill those needs, and being in a sex less relationship with an adult that wants to live as a baby all of the time isn't going to be appealing to most women.

    What you are asking for is a romantic relationship. Think about what you are offering your partner. 99.9% of adult women want a sexual relationship with their partner.

    So here is what you should do, imho, you can "A" find someone who is looking to take care of and support an adult as a child in every way with no sort of reciprocation for their efforts. OR you work on what you can offer them, maybe not sex, but something else.

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    I get 82 hours a week available for care through Medicaid at $15 an hour. That works out to $59,000+ a year. And that does not take into account that the first 40 hours would be regular time and the other 42 would be overtime at time and 1/2 an hour. So basically what I can offer mommy is a decent job caring for me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CPDude View Post
    I have been looking for a mommy off and on for a while. I have had a little bit of interest but when the potential mommy's find out I am completely asexual they lose interest. I want and need to be a baby 24/7 and can not handle the thought of being sexually active with mommy. Am I wrong?
    Hi CPDude.

    Finding a mommy or a daddy is not easy. My daddy started off as a freand and it tock a long time for him to become Daddy. He as been with me nice I went through my mental illness of depression.

    It also tock time for me to realise I needed to be 24/7 and that took a lot of thinking about. And I hat to do a lot of talking with Daddy about it. He is happy being my daddy .

    I Think it helps that we were in a non sexual relationship From the start. And he now know that I am asexual boy.

    Any way being 24 7. Little is not as easy as you may think. Daddy and I shair a house now. And we share our wages to pay for things. We both check with each other what we are happy with. For example he has never changed me I would like to be changed by him which show how much I trusts him. But he is not willing to do that for me.

    He has feed me a full times which was very speceal.

    Choosing to be a little boy again also means accepting the consequences so now I have a bed time routine. And he make me have naps but every day. I am also not alowed to wach any films that are for 15 year olds or above and TV time is cartoons/ Disney and Children's TV. May be the news. He will say things like "come along Sisi, Daddy know best." and "well you chouise to live this way." So be shore that you wount to give some one else control over you. You may not feel as safe as you may think. And it does take some getting use to. I know that if I really did not wount to do something he would back down I hope. It just he has never put me in that situation. It come close once when he told me that I needed a hair cut and later that day we went to town and he told me that it was time to make me look like a smart little boy and have it all cut off. I think I was in shock becouse before I know it I was in a barbers shop and he was telling the barber how he wonted it. He cut it shorter that usual but it was OK and the felling of be small was kind of nice.

    I still have to go out to work but I am little there as well which is another long story.

    Any way what I am saying it is very hard to find someone you can trust and you have to be clear what is you want. For me it has work out and i am very happy little boy. And happy being a boy. But this is not for everyone and for most of us little time is something to look forward to and cherish.

    Hope all this helps you.

    Sisi

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    Quote Originally Posted by CPDude View Post
    I get 82 hours a week available for care through Medicaid at $15 an hour. That works out to $59,000+ a year. And that does not take into account that the first 40 hours would be regular time and the other 42 would be overtime at time and 1/2 an hour. So basically what I can offer mommy is a decent job caring for me.
    This sounds like a wonderful proposition, until you realize that in order to be eligible to be paid by Medicaid, your 'mommy' must meet certain qualifications. Here's what we'd need to know to help you beyond this point: First, what's been the problem with the carers you've had? Second, are you just looking for an attentive, attractive carer who will put aside her adult caregiving experience and treat you like a two-year-old? Third, if that's indeed what you're seeking, how are you communicating that to the women who are prospects? Fourth, are you expecting the same woman to work 82 hours per week?

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