No personal interest in AB, strictly DL

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Strictly dl here. This fetish has been with me since early childhood, though I don't have any desire to be a child. It's sexual and somewhat relaxing. Women in diapers or who are otherwise incontinent or likely to have or having an accident diapered or not are a major turn on.
 
I am solely a Dl just love the feel of wearing and using them for what there for. I did buy a pacifier about 40 years ago but just did nothing for me. I still have it but the last time i seen it was when i moved in 2013. In started to like diapers since i was 4 and it's for life.
 
.....I was an adult baby long before I even knew that such a word existed. My testimony in this is really long so I will give you th gist of it. I was bullied a lot through out my school years. It got so bad that it seemed like anything with a face mocked me. I hated stuffed animals for this reason. In my Junior year in High school I decided to end this ridiculousness of how stuffed animals bothered me. The worst part was how My little pony coloring pages made me feal awkward. That was my starting point.
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.....I began with learning how to draw ponies. Just to give you an idea how long ago this was; G3 was still being produced. After getting rather good at drawing G3 style ponies I fell in love with it. I about cried when I saw how Pinkie pie treated Minty. Minty was a pony who had some problems. Primarily she though that she needed to fix things. I thought that if such a character could be accepted and loved than I knew in my heart that I could be loved too.
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.....Fast forward to college; I was dealing with the peak of my sex drive. I am not proud of it but I began my Diaper lover side as a fetishist. After a couple of years I found myself doing things that was un-healthy and even harmful to my urinary system. I lost what I had originally enjoyed in cartoons such as MLP. I did some research on the net and found adisc. I then learned who I was as an AB/DL. I decided then that my DL side will only be an attachment to my AB side. I began to go even further and tried regressing to a child state of mind. It now only ended my addiction to harmful ways of stimulation but it helped with things that I really needed to put aside.
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......Ever since then I have never allowed my AB/DL side to be sexual in nature unless the tension is so bad that its not avoidable. I have been a Brony since 2008 even before the term was coined. I have learned ways to cope with my inner sorrow with both my imaginary friends and my ABDL side. I am happy with who I am now where use to I really thought I was a freak of nature.
 
...you are talking like if a diaper fetish is a bad and unhealthy thing? Or am I misunderstanding? For me, 35 cis-woman from Northern Europe, I am quite happy with my sexuality. I have never had an urge to share the diaper part with anyone, though, and am happy practicing that by myself, and other sexual activities with other people.
 
Interest in diapers started when I was young because of a weak bladder as a result of a later diagnosed genetic disorder. The genetic disorder caused full incontinence during mid life. Started in the original Attends, which were way better than hospital diapers, but they could not keep up with the flow while sleeping, so I started looking for better diapers. This was pre internet, so my search for quality diapers was through disability magazines. This allowed me to find disability clothing... cloth diapers, plastic pants, snap crotch onesies to keep diapers in place, and footed sleepers to prevent my genetic disorder from triggering really bad things while sleeping. Diapers, onesies, and footed sleepers, all required, all inherently and uncomfortably juvenile.

After an initial purchase of a half dozen cloth diapers, my wife sewed more flannel diapers to meet my needs ( several dozen). She let our young kids pick the fabric, resulting in diapers with juvenile prints (not baby prints). My family brought levity to a rough situation, and helped me get past the uncomfortable feelings of being disabled and diapered full time.

I was on the internet very early on, and while searching for disability products stumbled upon the early AB/DL community. I didn’t participate as I felt I was neither AB or DL, but incontinent. At the same time I felt I had a connection with the AB/DL community because of diapers.

A few years ago, I decided I would try participating in ADISC for support, as there is NO support for incontinence through the medical community. After reading various threads, I decided to see if I had any AB leanings. The answer was a resounding no. I also tried meeting an AB/DL face to face, where I was asked to a fetish get together. I said no. So my connection with the AB/DL community is not because of being a little, or because of a fetish (oh the joys of disability)

I wear diapers because I need diapers. I wear onesies because they keep my diapers in place. I wear footed sleepers during cooler months to keep my genetic disorder in check. I have been seen by medical professionals in all of the above without hesitation or embarrassment. I have been seen by close friends in all of the above because of medical emergency without hesitation or embarrassment.

I’m currently sitting in an ABU Space diaper, because it’s a GREAT diaper and I am tired of wearing white/purple/blue/tan disposables for 20+ years, but that doesn’t make me an AB. I have solid color footed pajamas, but also have some with juvenile prints because they were on sale for a great price, but that doesn’t make me an AB.

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So to answer the question, I believe the AB/DL moniker is a bit restrictive. I look at it as a triangular pyramid (a shape with 4 sides that are all triangles), with incontinence (physical need for diapers) as one point, DL (physical desire for diapers) as another point, and AB (mental desire for regression) as the third point, and ?? (mental desire for diapers) as the fourth point. I also believe the majority of our community reside somewhere within the triangle pyramid, not at a point. As for me, I reside on one side, very close to the incontinence point, knowing I have ?? leanings, and would probably have DL leanings if I was sexually capable.

Feel free to disagree.
 
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Interest in diapers started when I was young because of a weak bladder as a result of a later diagnosed genetic disorder. The genetic disorder caused full incontinence during mid life. Started in the original Attends, which were way better than hospital diapers, but they could not keep up with the flow while sleeping, so I started looking for better diapers. This was pre internet, so my search for quality diapers was through disability magazines. This allowed me to find disability clothing... cloth diapers, plastic pants, snap crotch onesies to keep diapers in place, and footed sleepers to prevent my genetic disorder from triggering really bad things while sleeping. Diapers, onesies, and footed sleepers, all required, all inherently and uncomfortably juvenile.

After an initial purchase of a half dozen cloth diapers, my wife sewed more flannel diapers to meet my needs ( several dozen). She let our young kids pick the fabric, resulting in diapers with juvenile prints (not baby prints). My family brought levity to a rough situation, and helped me get past the uncomfortable feelings of being disabled and diapered full time.

I was on the internet very early on, and while searching for disability products stumbled upon the early AB/DL community. I didn’t participate as I felt I was neither AB or DL, but incontinent. At the same time I felt I had a connection with the AB/DL community because of diapers.

A few years ago, I decided I would try participating in ADISC for support, as there is NO support for incontinence through the medical community. After reading various threads, I decided to see if I had any AB leanings. The answer was a resounding no. I also tried meeting an AB/DL face to face, where I was asked to a fetish get together. I said no. So my connection with the AB/DL community is not because of being a little, or because of a fetish (oh the joys of disability)

I wear diapers because I need diapers. I wear onesies because they keep my diapers in place. I wear footed sleepers during cooler months to keep my genetic disorder in check. I have been seen by medical professionals in all of the above without hesitation or embarrassment. I have been seen by close friends in all of the above because of medical emergency without hesitation or embarrassment.

I’m currently sitting in an ABU Space diaper, because it’s a GREAT diaper and I am tired of wearing white/purple/blue/tan disposables for 20+ years, but that doesn’t make me an AB. I have solid color footed pajamas, but also have some with juvenile prints because they were on sale for a great price, but that doesn’t make me an AB.

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So to answer the question, I believe the AB/DL moniker is a bit restrictive. I look at it as a triangular pyramid (a shape with 4 sides that are all triangles), with incontinence (physical need for diapers) as one point, DL (physical desire for diapers) as another point, and AB (mental desire for regression) as the third point, and ?? (mental desire for diapers) as the fourth point. I also believe the majority of our community reside somewhere within the triangle pyramid, not at a point. As for me, I reside on one side, very close to the incontinence point, knowing I have ?? leanings, and would probably have DL leanings if I was sexually capable.

Feel free to disagree.

There is indeed another group missing, and this group rarely ever gets considered. How about those who are diagnosed with autism, and have a sensory processing disorder? You make some good observations in your post. Parents like to talk a lot about their children being autistic, and about services for their disabled kids. But they eventually become adults, many with scars from their upbringing by unsympathetic parents who REFUSE to understand the needs of a handicapped individual. Those juvenile prints you see on the Space diapers are there for MORE than just AB's. I can't stand the Covidien color coding either. Beige is a complete turnoff. An orange Attends Extended Wear? Porno gray for Depend UNDERWEAR (those are NOT diapers!) for men? Forget about it! For me, it's either white, or it's pastel baby colors. I don't care what other people think, and I don't have to. I have a disorder to manage, they do not!

Thank you for your post, ChesireCat. It's sad that the public and big companies don't recognize people with developmental disabilities.
 
I'm strictly a DL as well, but have the same respect for no matter if a person is DL, AB, or IC. I don't find women and women in diapers attractive, however, I also look at people for who they are more than anything else.
 
Yup. Completely DL. No interest in infantile stuff. I also like cool looking diapers and I had just recently purchased a Camo AIO diaper from Dependeco so that I can feel better as grown up, not a baby. I despise the toddler looking prints so I've printed out my own prints to tape on front of disposable diapers like star wars, star trek, skatebosrds/BMX, sports cars, etc....
 
I started out as just strictly a DL because I have always liked diapers and I didn't even know AB's were a thing until I discovered I had a diaper fetish. I used to think that the AB's were weird and creepy and something that I would never try but I slowly got into being and AB over time and I have accepted it and I like to indulge with it whenever possible and it all started because I was curious about trying a pacifier. I sleep with my plushie and paci every night now but before that it was something I thought I would never ever do.
 
I don't know if I'd classify myself as a DL but I'm definetly not an AB as of yet. I would classify myself as more of an experimenter, as I recently started wearing, maybe around 3 months now.
 
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