im just wondering if anyone with urine incontinence has constant lower back numbness , ive had lower back numbness for many years it never goes away even with medication even sitting on the sofa now has become an issue the only way to get comfy is lying on my side it drives me mad I wear incontinence pads / nappies 24/7 and when I leak I cannot feel anything it is from the lower back and genitals and bottom travels down to my thighs its just a constant 24/7 numbness