daddyzlittlegirl said:
Getting Married?
So I was thinking about this...
For a couple that are both into diapers more of a daddy little girl role.
Would you get married in diapers knowing that most of your family is going to be there? Lots of hugging, people helping fix your dress, dancing and ect...
Or do you think maybe you should just wait and diaper up for your wedding night with that special someone?
Thoughts?? :shrug:
Well, first of all, if you are getting married soon, congratulations! I got married within the last year, and it's a lot of work to organize a wedding, but it can end up being fun at times.
As others have said in this thread, it's really up to what you and your partner want to do. My wife and I are both ABDLs, but wearing during the ceremony was something that didn't really occur to either of us (although I was jealous that she got to wear such a pretty dress lol). We never really thought about diapers, and if I had to do it over again, I wouldn't wear one. There are a few reasons for this:
1. As mentioned, there will be lots of other people around, and they will be very touchy-feely. Everyone hugs at a wedding, and everyone watches the bride and groom at the front. So while I doubt anyone will be actually looking for a diaper, people in general will be watching you, so you'll have to hide the diaper very carefully. This is probably doable under a poofy wedding dress (not so much under a more form-fitting one), but the groom will have to keep his jacket on, and those things get hot fast.
2. The actual ceremony itself is so much running around, you won't have much time to even think about the fact that you're in diapers. I was socializing the whole time, or helping to organize things, and even dealing with a couple of issues that cropped up. And this was at a fairly small wedding. Overall, I don't think you'll really have time to stop and think about being diapered at all (although it does eliminate bathroom breaks, I guess!)
3. Similar to point #2, there are lots of things that demand mental attention. Whether it's talking, focusing on the ceremony, doing a speech, or taking part in the reception, I wouldn't want to do it all while also worrying about my diaper and whether it was visible/too wet. Weddings are very involved! It's best to have as few distractions as possible.
4. This is entirely personal preference, but for my wife and I, although we are both ABDL, diapers aren't the most important thing in our relationship. They may have been why we first met, but they're not why we fell in love. And for us, we wanted the wedding to focus on what was important to us. That meant friends and family, and making sure they were comfortable. That said, lots of couples do personal things during their weddings, some public and some private. If diapers are really central to you guys, you could definitely work them in privately.
In the end, it's up to you guys, but I personally wouldn't. Still, if you're getting married, it's your guys' day, so do what is best for you.