Wanting to be incontinent when you're actually not is just so incredibly stupid. You want to go wherever you want and however you want? Guess what, when you're incontinent, you don't get to choose to go whenever, wherever or however. And if you decide you hate it, there's no going back.
How about this? Put on your diaper, and when you have to pee, wet your diaper. Pick your spot, pick when you feel like you want to pee, and pee. No dependance to the toiler because you're WEARING A DIAPER.
It's the stupid ideas like this that makes people think there is something wrong with ABDLs.