MasterPython said:Fetlife is the closest thing. But you need to be willing to go to munches and events and meet people in person.
ExtraFluff said:That's what I'm unwilling to do. Any "munches" (annoying term) are bound to be filled with 99% men, with the one or two women already taken. I fail to understand how that can benefit any guy looking to meet a woman. Personally, I have no desire to meet any other guys into this. It's not appealing one bit. FetLife is useless, essentially. Strangely enough, I've only had success with Craigslist, the most maligned site. I've talked to two real women into this on the phone and met one in person just to talk, and they both responded to my ads. Neither conversation actually led to a diaper meet-up, but that's beside the point.
MasterPython said:Dating sites are full of men and fake female profiles.
Going to general fetish munches rather than diaper ones at least give you a remote chance.
ClickyKeys said:Not necessarily. A munch (I hate the term too lol, but it is what it is I guess) I held the other day was all women except for two people.
Cottontail said:Applying the severe filter of "AB/DL-aware" straight off is a bit like sinking the ship before it reaches the open sea. Sure, you'll be able to swim ashore, but you'll be back where you started from. Better to wait until the New World is at least on the horizon, in my opinion. There again, swimming ashore is likely, but while that may leave you looking like a weirdo, the many intervening adventures have an opportunity to make up for it.
I get that there are some for whom living this stuff 24/7 feels like a requirement. For the others who see AB/DL as something less than a lifestyle, however, it's probably a good idea to keep your options open. Excluding muggles from the pool of prospective partners is a very unfortunate thing to have to do. You know -- because that's like 99.999% of humans.
ExtraFluff said:...bound to be filled with 99% men, with the one or two women already taken. I fail to understand how that can benefit any guy looking to meet a woman.
ArchieRoni said:Also, I've been to a couple ABDL munches now and there was a reasonable ratio of men and women.
ExtraFluff said:As for "general fetish" get-togethers, that may be more likely to produce some kind of connection, but again, it's not very appealing to be hanging out with guys into this. For me personally, it's out of my comfort zone.