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    deviantartjd

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    Lately I've been stuck in this gruesome cycle where I really want diapers, I buy them, get really excited, then when I go to put them on, my guy parts also get very excited. Like to the point where I can't put a diaper on properly with them so erect. When I "relieve the pressure" (masturbating -_- ), everything returns back to minimal size. However, afterwards, I have lost all desire to put on the diaper or do anything related to wearing them or even go on websites like this. Afterwards, I just feel... well... pointless. I always thought that my desire for diapers and my ab desires were completely non-sexual as I have never correlated the two thoughts even unintentionally. Has anyone else dealt with this? I know I want to love diapers and wear them as often as possible but times like that, I just don't "feel" it.

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    This is a problem for a lot of people and it certainly weighed on me in the past. What I found the most effective was to just maintain my focus past the climax and before too long, I'd start to feel like diapers weren't so bad again. I've gotten better with it over time and now the impact on me is pretty minimal.

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    The more you wear your diapers should help you,I used to get hard even just thinking about and when I was about to put one on.the cure for this is to either tape on the diaper tight and put up with. the fact that it's uncomfortable and let your erection go down on its own or to take yourself in han and wank yourself off.now I wear diapers a lot I very rarely get hard when taping or pinning them on.I do however wake up hard and move about on the bed till I come which is pleasurable

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    I go back and forth with a similar issue, except I get a little further than you do. Somedays after not having worn in a little, I'll be in the mood to go on a week long run of wearing 24/7.. but the feistyness hits after a few hours and all i want is the climax. As much as I promise that I'll change into a fresh diaper after "releasing the pressure", sometimes I end up moving on afterwards. Very disappointing.

    But if I've already been wearing for a few days, I have no problem releasing and then changing into a fresh diaper. The desire usually only disappears for about 45 minutes or so usually anyhow, so I'm happy to be padded up when that subsides.

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    I usually have no problems putting on the diaper. But I do masturbate with them on: sometimes before peeing, sometimes after.

    I think the more you put them on, the more 'manageable' it will become.

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    Quote Originally Posted by deviantartjd View Post
    Lately I've been stuck in this gruesome cycle where I really want diapers, I buy them, get really excited, then when I go to put them on, my guy parts also get very excited. Like to the point where I can't put a diaper on properly with them so erect. When I "relieve the pressure" (masturbating -_- ), everything returns back to minimal size. However, afterwards, I have lost all desire to put on the diaper or do anything related to wearing them or even go on websites like this. Afterwards, I just feel... well... pointless. I always thought that my desire for diapers and my ab desires were completely non-sexual as I have never correlated the two thoughts even unintentionally. Has anyone else dealt with this? I know I want to love diapers and wear them as often as possible but times like that, I just don't "feel" it.
    I went through the opposite experience - I always knew I was a DL, but when I was younger I had no concious desire to act little or RP being a baby, so I didn't think of myself as AB. Since I've been in the ABDL scene I've discovered that playing baby is fun, and I've had to adjust my self image a little, which hasn't always been easy.
    If you've always considered your ABness to be non-sexual you may have a lot of semi/sub-conscious "eww diapers aren't for sex! they're for little babies!" baggage in your head that you'll have to get over.
    I don't know what your regular masturbating habits are, but perhaps you should try masturbating to AB stories/porn a few times? It will might feel wrong at first, but once you get comfortable with it hopefully you can use it to control your sexual desire for diapers, leaving you free to enjoy your non-sexual AB side. If you have a play session scheduled, try jerking off a few hours in advance or the day before - that should take the edge off...

    Oh, and try pointing upwards when you put on your diapers big boy ;-)

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    The dynamic you speak of was very common for me when I first started wearing diapers back in my early teens. Just as you describe, I would get really fixated and interested in diapers -- thinking more and more about them until I would go out and buy some. The excitement would build and so would my arousal -- uncontrollably -- even though I didn't feel 'sexual' per se regarding diapers in the first place. Inevitably when I would come to the point of orgasm, most if not all the desire would leave and (back then) would be completely replaced by shame/guilt/self-loathing.

    The more I've been involved with diapers over the years, the less and less the arousal pattern it, although the desire to wear is almost ever present. I can get turned on around them but it really must involve my mate in some way (nuff said). When I do go through with sexual pleasure, I still have some minor decrease in my interest in diapers but that is typically temporary (<15min). All said, I think you are experiencing something commonly felt by many of us -- and It probably will decrease the more you use them over time.

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    I struggled with this for a heck of a long time - still do
    What I found helpful, was not releasing, just lying on the nappy before putting it on (and waiting for things to calm down), and letting the arousal drop.

    If you can keep your hands off it, it might help?

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    I know the feeling...At first, I used to get aroused, then I would relieve myself, and not want diapers anymore. But, after a few weeks, I got used to it, and now I cannot imagine myself without diapers. My advice to you is to just give it time. If you know you are a true diaper lover, then be patient and stay relaxed!

    As for the AB or furry thing, I have yet to indulge in such fantasies, but some people here at ADISC have told me that the more I hang around, the more I will get into it...we'll see!

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    goodnites101

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    I GET THE EXACT SAME THING!! I wonder how common it is

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