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    My question is that from wacthing porn is it me or do women have more fun during sex than men. know im a virgin so i cant say that is true but it just seems like that. Also for men is sex really all it is cracked up to be. hopefully this isnt a wierd question. And i dont mean to affend anyone. just curious

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    Man or woman it depends on the individual. Is it all that it’s cracked up to be? It is for me. One thing you need to remember sex take place between your ears not between your legs. It’s how we think about it that gives us our level of enjoyment. As far as the porno….they are acting and for the most part over acting. All the noise and screaming is part of the acting. Love making is about sharing your body with another person and the pleasure you receive by doing it. The more your into the other person the greater your pleasure is. If your just doing to satisfy yourself it will still feel good but nothing compares to focusing on the other person.

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    thanks never thought of it like that but again im a virgin so......

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    Quote Originally Posted by cvilledperdyl View Post
    My question is that from wacthing porn is it me or do women have more fun during sex than men. know im a virgin so i cant say that is true but it just seems like that. Also for men is sex really all it is cracked up to be. hopefully this isnt a wierd question. And i dont mean to affend anyone. just curious
    I'm going to say this to you very clearly, and this is something that you need to take on board, and remember forever more.

    PORN IS NOT REAL!

    Nothing in porn is real. Yes these people are having sex - but they're having sex in front of a camera, cameraman, director, make-up people, goodness knows what else, and to top it off they're having sex with someone that they probably didn't even know until they arrived at the studio.

    ANYTHING that you see in a porn movie is fictional - you must not and can not base your own sex life/knowledge of sex on a fictional thing.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Talula View Post
    I'm going to say this to you very clearly, and this is something that you need to take on board, and remember forever more.

    PORN IS NOT REAL!
    This, women in porn are often made to be more vocal than men because most porn is made for men it makes sense that it be arousing for men and that includes making it look as though the women is having a good time while the man remains quiet about it. In reality men enjoy it just as much as women and can make just as much noise as them while having sex. Obviously there will be exceptions on both sides but generally men and women both enjoy sex to a similar degree.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Talula View Post
    PORN IS NOT REAL!
    This

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    Quote Originally Posted by pajamakitten View Post
    This, women in porn are often made to be more vocal than men because most porn is made for men.
    and this.

    In my experience (married more than 30 years, and some pre-marriage experience),


    1. men and women both enjoy sex.

    2. It takes a lot more time and effort to get women to orgasm than it does men. Especially if its a man putting in the time and effort to get her there. Obviously its easier to find and work your own hot buttons than someone else's, even if they're trying to guide you. That's a general statement. I'm sure there are exceptions on both sides. However, if you were to hold masturbation-to-orgasm time trials with large numbers of people, I have no doubt that men would be the overwhelming winners. Does that mean one gender enjoys it more than the other? Not necessarily. I enjoy short, intense bike races. I also enjoy long leisurely walks in the woods. One is not better than the other. They are different experiences with different kinds of enjoyment.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Talula View Post
    I'm going to say this to you very clearly, and this is something that you need to take on board, and remember forever more.

    PORN IS NOT REAL!

    Nothing in porn is real. Yes these people are having sex - but they're having sex in front of a camera, cameraman, director, make-up people, goodness knows what else, and to top it off they're having sex with someone that they probably didn't even know until they arrived at the studio.

    ANYTHING that you see in a porn movie is fictional - you must not and can not base your own sex life/knowledge of sex on a fictional thing.
    Absolutely this. Porn is fiction meant to entertain, arouse, and ultimately make money. Like any other dramatic fiction, certain things are downplayed and certain things are amplified to create the product the creators want you to consume. Real sex can sometimes be really quiet as both partners are just enjoying the moment. Real sex can sometimes be awkward or cumbersome as one partner is... not quite positioned properly and the other moves them or signals to them to adjust. Real sex depends on the mood of the partners involved, and sometimes one is way more into it than is the other. Real sex sometimes is absolute magic and other times kinda uninspiring. Porn does not show any of that. Porn is scripted. Porn has multiple takes to get everything just right and editing to cut out the awkward and cumbersome bits. Porn is about acting out a sex scene, not about the sex.

    Porn is not real. Sex is real. Be honest with your partner and communicate how you're feeling, even if it's just with a smile and a bit of heavier breathing or a bit of a grunt if things aren't quite lined up right. From there, it really is just kind of a figure-it-out-as-you-go sort of thing. There is no "right" way to do it, as long as you're both enjoying it.

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    If your Gay like me you can have the best of both worlds. I love to lift my tail for the right guy.

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    Porn is as realistic as Star Wars.

    Honestly, if you want to watch it go ahead, but just realize that when you do go for it with a girl, it will not be anything like a porno.

    And as for girls vs guys, it all depends, there is no correct answer to that. Too many Variables.

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    That sounds damn hot

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tiddles View Post
    I love to lift my tail for the right guy.
    That sounds damn hot

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