So I really like cloth better than disposable for a couple reason 1: I was raised in them, and 2: I'm a liberal arts college kid which means I an highly concerned about the environment, and I have very little money :P. So I was wondering 2 things, as it seems that few diapers come in EXACTLY my sizes, is it better to get diapers that are slightly big or slightly small? and do sites like babykins and babypants ship discretely? (I am a college kid so the whole discrete package thing is important).