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    So to make a long story short, I got invited to go on the annual week long beach trip with my old youthgroup by one of my close friends. This girl is a really good friend of mine who through me being drunk and texting her one night, found out that I was incontinent and wear diapers. I am not actually incontinent but havent had the guts to tell her the real truth so for the past 3 years I have worn diapers everytime ive hung out with her. Im not worried about her as our situation is cool, but do any of yall have any advice for how I can be diapered 24/7 at the beach and keep it discreet enough that no one else in my youthgroup finds out. Im talkin like advice for when Im on the beach in only a bathing suit. My friend likes to tan for hours so im sure ill need a pretty heavy diaper out on the beach, I was thinking tena super? Any good or relevant incontinence at the beach advice would be appreciated. Ps I have my mind set on wearin so only give me advice for that please, thanks!

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    It will be completely impossible to hide a diaper in a bathing suit. Depending on your fashion style I would think either surfing shorts or a sarong would be your only options for being discreet.

    Tena Maxi is better than Super, if you can find them.

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    BabyPikachu

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    You would actually be surprised how many people on a single beach could be wearing diapers and you cant tell.
    I do it all the time when my family goes to Myrtle Beach every year for Vacation. I simply put on my diaper and throw some swim trunks on. Nothing else to it unless your going to swim. Which you would need a Swim Diaper for so you can keep that Disposable from swelling up big time. I have one I got from a site called AquaGear and it works great.
    Take it from someone who is incontinent, it isnt that hard to conceal a Diaper.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BabyBugsBunny View Post
    You would actually be surprised how many people on a single beach could be wearing diapers and you cant tell.
    I do it all the time when my family goes to Myrtle Beach every year for Vacation. I simply put on my diaper and throw some swim trunks on. Nothing else to it unless your going to swim. Which you would need a Swim Diaper for so you can keep that Disposable from swelling up big time. I have one I got from a site called AquaGear and it works great.
    Take it from someone who is incontinent, it isnt that hard to conceal a Diaper.
    Truth be told this has kept me from the beach.. does that diaper allow you to wear a disposable under it? It keeps the diaper from getting wet in water? Please eloborate on your experiences. I am sure wearing an M3 or ATN under a regular pair of swimshorts will work for sunning, but for swimming?

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    Quote Originally Posted by BabyBugsBunny View Post
    You would actually be surprised how many people on a single beach could be wearing diapers and you cant tell.
    I do it all the time when my family goes to Myrtle Beach every year for Vacation. I simply put on my diaper and throw some swim trunks on. Nothing else to it unless your going to swim. Which you would need a Swim Diaper for so you can keep that Disposable from swelling up big time. I have one I got from a site called AquaGear and it works great.
    Take it from someone who is incontinent, it isnt that hard to conceal a Diaper.
    How does the swim diaper hold up against urine and leaking? Im either going to wear a disposable and just not swim or find a swim daiper that can hold up to urine leakage

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    Catperson

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    You could probably try just not wearing one. There's a billion excuses you could use.

    "I figured we would be in the water a lot, so I doubt I'll need it"
    "I am wearing one" (what's she gonna do, check?)


    Or you could just, ya know, tell her the truth. Though I don't know the situation in detail so I can't say if that would work out or not.

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    If I was swimming I'd just take my diaper off completely, and then put it back on when I've dried and changed. If I pee in the sea or into shorts that are already soaked, so what?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Catperson View Post
    You could probably try just not wearing one. There's a billion excuses you could use.

    "I figured we would be in the water a lot, so I doubt I'll need it"
    "I am wearing one" (what's she gonna do, check?)


    Or you could just, ya know, tell her the truth. Though I don't know the situation in detail so I can't say if that would work out or not.
    This. Listen to this guy.

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    BabyPikachu

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    Quote Originally Posted by irataliw View Post
    Truth be told this has kept me from the beach.. does that diaper allow you to wear a disposable under it? It keeps the diaper from getting wet in water? Please eloborate on your experiences. I am sure wearing an M3 or ATN under a regular pair of swimshorts will work for sunning, but for swimming?
    Yes, the Swim Diaper I have allows enough room that you can fit it over a disposable, thats what I do most of the time.
    I have gone swimming in the ocean, I have dived of a Board at a pool, and I even use it when I'm out canoeing a creek. It works great and keeps water off the disposable.

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    Quote Originally Posted by blueberry View Post
    How does the swim diaper hold up against urine and leaking? Im either going to wear a disposable and just not swim or find a swim daiper that can hold up to urine leakage
    I fit the Swim Diaper over a disposable and it kinda serves as a water resistant cover. It keeps the disposable diaper dry from water so it doesnt swell up, and sag, burst, etc. The Swim Diaper by itself does protect from a certain amount of urine, but since I have heavy urinary incontinence it doesnt work very well by itself.

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    if shes invited you.. say you cant go becasue your problem? its not like you are required to go? she will most likely understand...

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