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Thread: Attractions to do with ABDL (or "the perfect partner")

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    I didn't really know what to call this topic, either "Your perfect partner" or "Strange attraction to do with ABDL"?

    As usual I overthink too much, and I always try to find causes and relationships between things, for instance between things that happened when I was young, and me being ABDL. The other day I realised something else and it may be weird, but if there was ever an accepting community it is here.

    I am attracted to women and in the media and every day life there is this image of a "perfect" woman and even though that may be skewed, there does seem to be this idea of a conventional "beautiful" woman (and having chats with male friends confirms that). I would like to state that looks are definitely not the most important thing, but it is just part of being attracted to people.

    Ever since I can remember I am not at all attracted to that conventional idea of a "beautiful" woman, but instead I am much more attracted to women that have more "imperfections" although I don't like that term. I feel attracted to women that are more curvy/chubby & plump; I love lots of pubic hair; big bottoms; wide hips and hanging breasts etcetera. I am lucky in that my girlfriend matches those characteristics (and she to me is perfect) but also when I happen to watch p0rn (yes... I admit I sometimes do), it is those kinds of women I look at. And even when I imagine a woman in diapers, I don't fancy the cute pretty girl, but again that rubenesque woman.

    I never paid too much attention to it, although it was tricky when talking to my friends about women. The women they found beautiful and would make remarks about were not at all the women I'd like, but social convention, especially at a younger age, simply does not take into account a man that likes a different type of woman.

    So I was wondering if I could make a connection to other aspects of my life and wondered whether it perhaps is another part of my AB/DL-ism. The need for diapers and the enjoy I get from it are feelings that are projected internally, but what if my attraction to those kind of women are part of the same feelings but projected externally? I mean, in ancient history this type of woman was the image of a goddess, the "mother", "earth mother" (see image) and even when you look at art from a much later time, such women are the ones in the picture (see image; it is not called rubenesque for nothing). So perhaps it has to do with a care-taking figure, a feeling of security and safety, in much the same sense as diapers give me that feeling?

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    Perhaps this is all nonsense but I am curious to see whether other people here have similar feelings, or can relate to this in one way or another or not at all. And if this is all nonsense in your eyes I'd be interested in what kind of partner you are most attracted to. And again, of course looks aren't the only thing, what is inside matters most and I'll have a think about that as well, whether that relates to similar feelings.

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    While i was randomly searching, or i heard it from someone in this site, There's actually a ABDL, Adoption center, Errrr i forgot where, I think Nebraska I could be wrong, But just look up ABDL Adoption's Or something, It was recently made as i heard, So idk i did not read this whole post, So consider the fact of me being wrong in which you may have something I did not read in which simplifys the fact of Adisc being a adoption Lol,

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    Quote Originally Posted by Crel View Post
    While i was randomly searching, or i heard it from someone in this site, There's actually a ABDL, Adoption center, Errrr i forgot where, I think Nebraska I could be wrong, But just look up ABDL Adoption's Or something, It was recently made as i heard, So idk i did not read this whole post, So consider the fact of me being wrong in which you may have something I did not read in which simplifys the fact of Adisc being a adoption Lol,
    Thanks for replying but yes, that has nothing to do with my post at all

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    I think u have a point as to attraction and how we see a perfect partner. I like "baby-faced" guys so to speak. Who are fairly petite in build and have curly hair and other babyish features sort of. I find them highly attractive. My BF is 5'9" and small. For me its being the "mommy" person that makes it work.

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    Wow I just made a post from a female perspective about this topic. I was asking if AB/DL men were attracted to the general p0rn type little girls that are so readily available in diaper pictures or if it was just because most women aren't willing to pose unless they are paid. Personally I am a more curvaceous female , not fat, just more curves than the medias average girl, with larger breasts and big hips. My husband says he likes that about me but it's hard to believe him because when I met him he had diaper pictures that were all younger skinny girls. He said it was because he was into the diapers and that there really werent a lot of girls in diaper ads that aren't the typical type of woman So hearing that you also are into that is reaffirming. It really makes me wonder if more men are into more curvaceous women and if it has a link to AB/DL...
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    Quote Originally Posted by Babykk34 View Post
    Wow I just made a post from a female perspective about this topic. I was asking if AB/DL men were attracted to the general porn type little girls that are so readily available in diaper porn or if it was just because most women aren't willing to pose unless they are paid. Personally I am a more curvaceous female , not fat, just more curves than the medias average girl, with larger breasts and big hips. My husband says he likes that about me but it's hard to believe him because when I met him he had diaper porn that was all younger skinny girls. He said it was because he was into the diapers and that there really werent a lot of girls in diaper porn other that the typical porn type. So hearing that you also are into that is reaffirming. It really makes me wonder if more men are into more curvaceous women and if it has a link to AB/DL...
    I saw that lol. Its interesting how attraction works and from the majority of guys I've talked to, most of them don't like the porn stars. They prefer real women

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    I personally like super manly guys aka beards and hairy chests and just a little bit of muscle. I like seeing them become more babyish in a diaper with me or if I am playing mommy to see them do something so the opposite of what they look like is a turn on for me. Maybe the whole reversal thing? I also enjoy when they baby me because they look more father-like.

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    I'm happy to hear that those type of girls aren't the norm when it comes to AB/DL guys an attraction. I really do wonder about the link between AB/DL guys and more curvaceous women...maybe a mommy/caretaker type of thing?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Babykk34 View Post
    Wow I just made a post from a female perspective about this topic. I was asking if AB/DL men were attracted to the general p0rn type little girls that are so readily available in diaper pictures or if it was just because most women aren't willing to pose unless they are paid. Personally I am a more curvaceous female , not fat, just more curves than the medias average girl, with larger breasts and big hips. My husband says he likes that about me but it's hard to believe him because when I met him he had diaper pictures that were all younger skinny girls. He said it was because he was into the diapers and that there really werent a lot of girls in diaper ads that aren't the typical type of woman So hearing that you also are into that is reaffirming. It really makes me wonder if more men are into more curvaceous women and if it has a link to AB/DL...
    Haha, that is very funny, what a coincidence. And interesting more people seem to have had these thoughts, I think we might be on to something there

    I agree it is perhaps simply because it is more natural, but there are many ways in which a woman can be natural, for me it is really this particular type of woman. So it is not necessarily about "porn star" type women. Like I said in my first post; when going out with male friends and "checking out" women, I would look at very different women than they would.

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    I find it interesting that there could be a link between a woman's body type and AB/DL...I wonder how many other guys are into that type of woman in our community here on ADISC and I wonder if it goes both ways and women on ADISC are also more attracted to manlier type men as caretakers...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Babykk34 View Post
    I find it interesting that there could be a link between a woman's body type and AB/DL...I wonder how many other guys are into that type of woman in our community here on ADISC and I wonder if it goes both ways and women on ADISC are also more attracted to manlier type men as caretakers...
    Well that is why I posted those images as examples. The link between "body type" and what is seen as optimal or what is a mother figure, have existed since ancient times, so it wouldn't surprise me if AB/DL-people, that project these feelings of security by wearing diapers (briefly stated, of course there are more emotions there) also project these feelings to "a person they would feel safe and/or intimate with".

    And indeed, I also wonder if it works the other way

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