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    Question Question for LBGT ADISCers:

    You know, I had an interesting thought. I generally got over the whole "confused" stage back in middle school and settled on the fact that I'm bisexual. But you know, I've always wondered.. Where am I really? With all these people saying in order to be bisexual, you'd have to be open to having sex with girls and guys, that puts me in an interesting position. I've heard conflicting opinions on that stance too. You see:
    -I like girls. I'd kiss a girl and have kissed a girl. I'd *whistles insinuatingly* a girl. I find girls hot, I find them cute. I check them out. Etc.
    -I like guys. I'd kiss a guy and also have. I find guys hot/cute. I check them out, etc. But I really thought about it, and I don't know if I'd get down n' dirty, so to speak, with a guy. Trust me, I've thought long and hard. I don't know. I'm not completely closed to the idea, but I can't know for certain until I'm presented with the opportunity.
    What would you guys say?

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    Well, there's a handy thing called the Kinsey Scale that you can find anywhere on the internet. Just google it up. Sounds like you stand smack-dab in the middle. The fact that you're attracted to the same gender means that you're not completely straight... But then, not many people are in the first place.

    I wouldn't worry about it too much. Sexuality, like gender, is primarily defined by self-identification. If you're happy with the way that you identify with yourself, then that should be enough for you.

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    Don't worry about what the word is. Just go for whatever you like.

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    Quote Originally Posted by HuskyAllie View Post
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    -I like guys. I'd kiss a guy and also have. I find guys hot/cute. I check them out, etc. But I really thought about it, and I don't know if I'd get down n' dirty, so to speak, with a guy. Trust me, I've thought long and hard. I don't know. I'm not completely closed to the idea, but I can't know for certain until I'm presented with the opportunity.
    What would you guys say?
    I'd say, you're right: you can't really know until you're presented with the opportunity. I would guess from what you've said, that you probably would be fine with it, if "Mr Right" came along... Are you single at the moment? Maybe time to look for a nice guy to get with?

    At the same time, it's fine to be Bi-sexual and still have a preference for one type or another - even just amongst women or men, we all have our preferences for personality and looks.

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    Oh, of course. In no way am I insecure about my sexuality. I just wanted to ask the opinion of others. (:

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    Quote Originally Posted by HuskyAllie View Post
    Oh, of course. In no way am I insecure about my sexuality. I just wanted to ask the opinion of others. (:
    have you tried watching gay porn / porn with guys in?

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    Of course. Honestly, porn of either gender doesn't do too much for me. It's more about the topics than the people involved, for me.

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    I think most young people (well, the open-minded ones) will question their sexuality at some point. Just go with the flow and see what "feels right" (or what "feels best"). As you say, until the opportunity presents itself, you won't necessarily know for certain, and even then it might just be the "wrong" person.

    The more experience you get (and I'm thinking of flirting, kissing and getting crushes, rather than carnal knowledge) the more it should all fit into place. Until then, there's no reason to worry about it.

    A lot of people see sexuality as being quite vague and fluid, anyway -- I used to work with a bloke who jokingly measured people's sexuality in pints of beer (i.e. a "seven pint straight" was someone who would act completely straight until they'd had seven pints of beer)!

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    Bisexual is quite a broad term, straight and gay have a strict definition whereas bisexuality does not. Typically it means attracted to both sexes but I'm sure most bisexuals are like yourself in that they lean slightly one way or the other while still being open to open to both sexes, I don't think bisexual means that you have to like both sexes equally or in exactly the same way but rather you are simply open to potential relationships (whether intimate or purely sexual) with both sexes. Besides sexuality is often fluid and can change depending on the person you are with, you may find a girl who you'd like to kiss but would not have sex with and you may meet a man who'd you like to have sex with which is kind of a great thing about sexuality in that you don't have to be placed in a certain box and stay there but rather are free to explore and experiment with whoever takes your fancy.

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    That sounds bisexual to me with a slight leaning to women in one particular area which could be altered if you found the guy who really did it for you. So you are pretty near dead center Kinsey, so well done you.

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