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    Does anybody ever have trouble having sex without diapers. And if so what are your tricks in getting around that, as in what do you do or use to get in the mood if you can't have anything noticeable ab or dl.

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    Sorry unable to answer, I am still a virgin, Which is hard to find these days.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DLking View Post
    Does anybody ever have trouble having sex without diapers. And if so what are your tricks in getting around that, as in what do you do or use to get in the mood if you can't have anything noticeable ab or dl.
    Personally speaking I find the reverse to be true, I have less trouble locating my wedding tackle when it is not carefully packed away. On another note it helps if you are ‘interested’ in the person that you are with.


    Quote Originally Posted by WingDog View Post
    Sorry unable to answer, I am still a virgin, Which is hard to find these days.
    True, answers are very hard to find these days.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DLking View Post
    Does anybody ever have trouble having sex without diapers. And if so what are your tricks in getting around that, as in what do you do or use to get in the mood if you can't have anything noticeable ab or dl.
    I'm not sure if you mean sex in the traditional sense, or in a more broad "arousal leading to orgasm" kinda way. So when I say sex without any qualification, assume I mean the latter.

    Anyway, it's entirely possible, either through conditioning or through just being that way.

    By way of conditioning, very soon after I turned 18, I bought my first sex toy (I'm male, it was made for insertion). I'd wanted one for a long time and when I began using it, it was totally awesome. But then, something funny happened. After a few months, I had a really difficult time reaching orgasm without using it. I stopped using it every time and only on occasion, and the issue more or less cleared up. But if you've conditioned your body to associate sex inextricably with diapers, it can make sex difficult without them.

    As for just being that way, we're discussing love of diapers as a paraphilic issue. Traditionally, we've defined paraphilias as something you can't get off without out. For example, a zoophile can't become aroused unless animal sex is involved in some way- observation, a fantasy, actual contact, etc. But there's talk that the next DSM will split this up into levels. That there are some people who can't become aroused without X, that some people can become aroused without X but not as well, and that some people can be equally aroused with or without X and/or Y and/or Z.

    [Tell me if that made sense!]

    Personally, I go through phases. I'll have a period I don't think of diapers at all, and periods where they universally enhance sexual fantasies. It's all a matter of going with what feels right at the moment, and what makes you happy. If it's a diaper kinda time for me, then I'll go through a fantasy involving diapers, or pictures I found online, or something else similar- either with just myself, or mentally if I'm with my fiancee.

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    Quote Originally Posted by acorn View Post
    True, answers are very hard to find these days.
    I think answers are like sex. How hard they are to find correlates to how high or low you set your standards.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DLking View Post
    Does anybody ever have trouble having sex without diapers. And if so what are your tricks in getting around that, as in what do you do or use to get in the mood if you can't have anything noticeable ab or dl.
    Yup sometimes it is a bit tough, and I just think about diapers to get me over it haha

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    Well, I'm asexual. While I do enjoy diapers sexually from time to time, I don't have the urge to have sex at all, with or without diapers.

    That said, I can think of some limited advice. First off, I'd definitely tell people about your diapers: if you trust them enough to have sex with them, you should be able to trust them with this. If you don't want to do that, you can always arouse yourself with diaper fantasies during sex, it's not like that would be noticeable.

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    Nope If diapers are not involved in someway i wan't even get a wiggle out of my penis. If diapers are involved Morning Glory Hellaluya

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    Quote Originally Posted by NightFox View Post
    I'm not sure if you mean sex in the traditional sense, or in a more broad "arousal leading to orgasm" kinda way. So when I say sex without any qualification, assume I mean the latter.

    Anyway, it's entirely possible, either through conditioning or through just being that way.

    By way of conditioning, very soon after I turned 18, I bought my first sex toy (I'm male, it was made for insertion). I'd wanted one for a long time and when I began using it, it was totally awesome. But then, something funny happened. After a few months, I had a really difficult time reaching orgasm without using it. I stopped using it every time and only on occasion, and the issue more or less cleared up. But if you've conditioned your body to associate sex inextricably with diapers, it can make sex difficult without them.

    As for just being that way, we're discussing love of diapers as a paraphilic issue. Traditionally, we've defined paraphilias as something you can't get off without out. For example, a zoophile can't become aroused unless animal sex is involved in some way- observation, a fantasy, actual contact, etc. But there's talk that the next DSM will split this up into levels. That there are some people who can't become aroused without X, that some people can become aroused without X but not as well, and that some people can be equally aroused with or without X and/or Y and/or Z.
    This is true. You can technically condition yourself to associate sex with anything; if you stare at a green pen whenever you masturbate, your mind will associate sexual pleasure with green pens. The same is true with diapers. It's all a matter of weening yourself from diapers by trying to fantasize about something else.

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    Quote Originally Posted by NightFox View Post
    I'm not sure if you mean sex in the traditional sense, or in a more broad "arousal leading to orgasm" kinda way. So when I say sex without any qualification, assume I mean the latter.

    Anyway, it's entirely possible, either through conditioning or through just being that way.

    By way of conditioning, very soon after I turned 18, I bought my first sex toy (I'm male, it was made for insertion). I'd wanted one for a long time and when I began using it, it was totally awesome. But then, something funny happened. After a few months, I had a really difficult time reaching orgasm without using it. I stopped using it every time and only on occasion, and the issue more or less cleared up. But if you've conditioned your body to associate sex inextricably with diapers, it can make sex difficult without them.

    As for just being that way, we're discussing love of diapers as a paraphilic issue. Traditionally, we've defined paraphilias as something you can't get off without out. For example, a zoophile can't become aroused unless animal sex is involved in some way- observation, a fantasy, actual contact, etc. But there's talk that the next DSM will split this up into levels. That there are some people who can't become aroused without X, that some people can become aroused without X but not as well, and that some people can be equally aroused with or without X and/or Y and/or Z.

    [Tell me if that made sense!]

    Personally, I go through phases. I'll have a period I don't think of diapers at all, and periods where they universally enhance sexual fantasies. It's all a matter of going with what feels right at the moment, and what makes you happy. If it's a diaper kinda time for me, then I'll go through a fantasy involving diapers, or pictures I found online, or something else similar- either with just myself, or mentally if I'm with my fiancee.

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    I think answers are like sex. How hard they are to find correlates to how high or low you set your standards.
    This is a very intelligent observation. I remember seeing a Law and Order SVU episode (not so intelligent on my part) dealing with this very subject. The suspect in question had gotten himself so sensitized to pornography, that he couldn't get off with a girl unless he had porn involved. Eventually his frustration reached such a level, that he began to murder various women. Even though this is just t.v., I believe it's based on a real condition. So like Nightfox has said, the diapers have overly sensitized you to diaper stimulation, and perhaps desensitized you to traditional sex, that with another.

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