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    So a trusted friend asked me what I do to relax. I took this as a good oppritunity to "test the waters". I told her I like to do things that remind me of when I was younger, like watch cartoons, hang out with my plushies, ect. So far, it went well. She was very receptive. Then I told her about my paci that I've had since I was two (which for the record I don't use, its more or less a sentimental piece). She said something to the effect of "Please tell me you don't...". So that's when I decided to pull up, I doubt telling her of any diaper or babyish things would have went well. Still, thats the most I've ever told any mortal about my TB side. I guess I'm a bit proud of myself, perhaps as time goes on, the topic will arise again. Any similar experiences?

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    I've told a few friends over time who I knew would be accepting of it, one of who thinks it's really cute.
    I have had a similar experience though; one of my friends who I talk to infrequently because we don't see much of each other anymore, though we're still really close, mentioned a fetish of his to me and he insisted that I must have one too. I figured eh, what the hell, and mentioned diapers to him which he took well. He seemed a little intrigued by it but didn't ask past that probably because I said it kind of reluctantly.
    I come from an extremely accepting group of friends though so this has probably led me to be more open about things than a lot of people.

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    Hmm. No, I've never gone that far.

    The closest I've come to letting someone know about this side of me is when I told a good friend of mine that I was (at that time- about 2 years ago) a bedwetter. We'd been talking about embarrassing secrets, so it made sense to tell her that. Other than that, nothing's come up.

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    A few of my friends from church know I still wet my bed sometimes, though very infrequently. I trust them, but in all honesty I could not tell them that I LIKE wearing diapers and having accidents on purpose sometimes. I guess it is a sexual thing for me, and I cant talk to them about that. I have a hard time accepting it about myself, and while I dont believe it is wrong or bad, I personally try to be pure (not masturbate) and not think about guys especaily. So I have not been able to feel like they would understand that part of it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Valkyrie View Post
    I guess I'm a bit proud of myself, perhaps as time goes on, the topic will arise again. Any similar experiences?
    You should be proud of yourself -

    Way to be courageous in being authentic to who you are. Most of us, I'm sure, would respond to your friends question with the average, non-personal answers like - "oh I take a hot bath; maybe play xbox; or go for a walk..."
    But You: you answered truthfully and went out on a limb - kudos.

    In addition, I think you should be proud for knowing when to stop. This is wisdom in action. In AA/NA they teach that you shouldn't self-reveal if (a) it will hurt you, or (b) it will hurt the other person. In a way, it seems like you intuitively followed this time-tested advice: Wise.

    Well done - be proud.

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    It is hard to bring up I give you that.

    Some people know that I have an "Inner Kid" but very few people know about how baby I really am. One of my friends came to help me clean my apartment and I found like 9 bottles that were dirty... and it may make her uncomfy but she doesn't complain.

    But last time she came, I was like omg... I have paddles on the floor because I am into spanking too.

    Well she understands the need to be comforted but she doesn't understand needing spankings because they are severe and hurt...

    I said I can't explain it to you... its just who I am!

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    It takes a lot of courage to admit, even to a close friend, that you have a fetish this bizarre. (And if you don't think an adult dressing up like a baby for kicks is bizarre, you are fooling yourself. That doesn't mean it's wrong or bad, just...different.) The first person I told was accepting, and didn't make fun of me at all. In fact, nobody I've told has ever been mean about it. Hesitant yes, but not ugly. I told the first person, the wife of a great friend, because I had worn under my clothes while visiting them. nfortunately I leaked a little and ended up having to sneak out of there quickly, leaving a wet chair cushion in my place. I felt bad about ruining their furniture, so I told her the next day. She was ok with it and even let out a couple of awws. She and her husband, who also knows, are still great friends to this day.

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    Due to the fact I'm running to bathroom every half hour or more, my friends and family wouldn't be freaked out if they knew I wore Depend pullups. I have post urinary dribble. I'm much less frightened of this fact. BUT....if they found out I find the smell of baby powder INTOXICATING and CRAVED a NUK 5, damn, can't even imagine. If someone found my Depends max protection, I'd say "due to the alcoholic drinking in my past, I wear these." Some of my close friends are aware of my bedwetting until I turned 12. They're also aware I used to pass out drunk and wet myself, and made jokes about me wearing diapers!
    I changed my eHarmony profile's "5 things I can't live without." I put Depends as one of those items. I also said I wanted a woman whose nurturing and loving; who wants a romantic and loving man to cuddle with on couch!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jeb View Post
    A few of my friends from church know I still wet my bed sometimes, though very infrequently. I trust them, but in all honesty I could not tell them that I LIKE wearing diapers and having accidents on purpose sometimes. I guess it is a sexual thing for me, and I cant talk to them about that. I have a hard time accepting it about myself, and while I don't believe it is wrong or bad, I personally try to be pure (not masturbate) and not think about guys especially. So I have not been able to feel like they would understand that part of it.
    I don't think there's anything wrong with masturbation. I think studies have actually found it to be healthy. I'm sure you've heard the line that 95% do it and the other 5% are lying. Nothing wrong with thinking about guys either.

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