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    Hi All!

    I have been talking to my counselor on and off about my likes of baby stuff, diapers, pull-ups, all baby gear...

    She had told me that my trauma and abuse was so severe to lead to this that it would take me years to overcome...

    Today we were talking on the phone, to confirm an appointment, and she told me to do something nice for myself. I told her I had.

    Then we talked about the adult baby stuff and I told her about this site. She wants to LEARN MORE about this lifestyle.. AB/DL!!!! She told me that she would work with me to rid myself of the shame.

    That makes me feel good that I'm not being attacked but rather being accepted.

    Does anyone else have stories about their counselors/doctors or anyone they have talked to about AB/DLism?

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    my counselor knows about it

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    Quote Originally Posted by maddie212 View Post

    Then we talked about the adult baby stuff and I told her about this site. She wants to LEARN MORE about this lifestyle.. AB/DL!!!! She told me that she would work with me to rid myself of the shame.
    I love this! :3 She wants to help you get rid of the shame of being an AB, not rid you of being an AB. That's wonderful.

    :/ My soon-to-be-ex-counsellor knows but is not supportive and treats it like...well, some horrible freaky fetish. She wants me to 'understand it's not NORMAL'.

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    So who knows Im AB, that better would be that not, except one ex GF. Discovered for mainly one reason - alcohol: Found out, when I was drunk.

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    My last counselor knew. I told him about it after several sessions. He was generally accepting, and said he was interested by it. He also claimed to have once had a patient with a different babyish habit, but wouldn't say any more (thankfully, lol). He was generally more along the lines of your counselor, in that he didn't think it was a problem that needed to be changed or anything, and was genuinely glad when I told him I was coming to terms with it and allowing myself to give into it.

    I don't see him anymore, but that's mostly because our sessions always felt awkward. He was kind of a flake and didn't do things that he said he would do for me outside of the office (i.e. looking up my disability so that he could learn more about it and how to help). It just felt like he was having me in there, humoring me, and getting money. I really didn't feel like it was helping me much, so I left. I generally need someone who's caring, openly compassionate, and understanding. The search continues, lol.

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    I had a psychiatrist when my mom found my stash as well as gay porn. She got a double whammy. It was very embarrassing and humiliating waiting in the waiting room, knowing I would have to go through that door and tell a complete stranger things I had kept secret all my life. He said I would out grow wanting to act and feel like a baby, and he was quite wrong. I only saw him a few times because my parents couldn't afford the visits, so that ended and I was relieved.

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    Years back I went to see a counselor, told her about my desires to wear diapers, did not seem to phase her one bit, was asked to keep a diary of when I wore a diaper and how I felt befor I put the diaper on and how I felt after I had the diaper on.
    I did this for 30 day and turned it in at our next appointment, she took some time to review it befor asking me a few questions.
    Onw of her questions was, do you ever wet or mess in the diaper, to which I answered yes, the next question was, when was the last time I wet in a diaper, I said about ten minutes ago, she got this shocked look on her face, than asked what I ment, I told her I had wet my diaper while she was reviewing my diary. She asked how it made me feel, I said, relaxed.
    Than she asked when was the last time I messed in a diaper, I answered just a moment ago.
    The exspression on her face was priceless, she was totaly shocked by my answer and somewhat dumbfounded.
    She asked me if I realy messed in my diaper, I said yes.
    Well you might be able to guess what happened next, I was asked to leave and was asked not to wet or mess my diaper at out next appointment.

    I did not wet or mess my diapers during any of my appointments with her after that. Not to say I did not wear a wet diaper while in session, but I never wet them during the sessions.

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    ooo come on, whats the reason for confronting your counselor like that. She/He is there to help you with your thoughts and feelings not for your own enjoyment. Messing or wetting on purpose during a council is so out of the question to do....you are giving the community a bad name by it!

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    Quote Originally Posted by lonnie View Post
    Than she asked when was the last time I messed in a diaper, I answered just a moment ago.
    The exspression on her face was priceless, she was totaly shocked by my answer and somewhat dumbfounded.
    No, just no. It sounds to me like this lady was generally accepting of you and this desire. She was trying to help you out and was wanting to know more about it and perhaps help you discover (as well as her) what was driving your interest. Wearing a diaper there was a bold move, and just the knowledge that you were wearing one may have been enough to get a reaction. Wetting in front of her was even bolder and was unnecessary.

    Messing in front of her, however, is a resounding "no!" Look at this from our wiki page, Wearing diapers in public:


    Quote Originally Posted by ADISC Wiki
    Do not do a number two in public. It is unpleasant for everyone, but is especially unpleasant for the person wearing the diaper. Defecating in public is extremely impolite to the people around you. Doing this is likely to result in Moo hunting you down and either digesting you four times or ending your existence with a rusty spatula previously used to deep-fry McDonalds hamburgers.
    You may just have the site's famed extraterrestrial cow after you now. If she kept you as a patient after that, then I certainly hope you actually sought help from her, and didn't try to 'phase' her like that again.




    Quote Originally Posted by Zowie19 View Post
    Messing or wetting on purpose during a council is so out of the question to do....you are giving the community a bad name by it!
    Agreed!

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    My wife and I went to a counselor together once to deal with some issues we were having at the time. She learned about my incontinence and how I've learned to enjoy being diapered--didn't phase her a bit. She pointed out that many couples have 'kinks' that are harmless to anybody else and are only between consenting adults--nobody else's business!!!

    We were able to get to the point where we cleared a LOT out between us. We haven't seen that counselor in years and our marriage is great, just celebrated 18 years!

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