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    Question Confused about where to start

    I'm Drake. I posted my intro a couple days ago, but I'm stumped on where to start here. My biggest problem here is this is all pretty new to me, and I can't really strike up a conversation with people I know little to nothing about beforehand. Maybe I just need to give it some time?

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    It can all be a little daunting at the start. If you read around the forums, I think you'll get a sense of what people are about. Maybe you could just sort of ease into it by talking with people about topics that have nothing to do with diapers (we've got a lot of those). I hope you'll find it's worth the effort

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    I would try to relax and not over think the site. Check out the thread, reading the posts and decide if there is something you want to add. Over a period of time you will get to know the posters and they will get to know you. At first, I was overwhelmed. I had trouble remembering who was who, but in a short while, I became a lot more comfortable with the process. You will too.

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    I'm pretty much the exact same way, but it's getting a lot easier to talk to people.

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    It's a message board, you just converse with people. Start by posting in threads.

    Welcome to the interwebzz.

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    I lurked for like three weeks before I started posting... So I'm pretty confident your already beating me :P

    But yeah just look around until you start finding some threads that meet your interests, and post in those, for example: In my first few days I stuck mostly around the "Computers and games" section, because that was relevant to my interests at the time.

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    Drake when you see a topic your interested in or have an opinion on just state your case, after a while you will get to know some of the people here.

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    Honestly, just jump into a thread with your opinion and response. We certainly don't shun the new members- we love it when this site grows!

    And I think this thread has really shown that you want to get involved, and I, for one, really appreciate it.

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    Well, I've been lurking around the IRC, just watching people post. It's a little discouraging when I do post, for it's tough to actually hold a conversation, or even start one.

    I've been also lurking around the forums, but there's not much I can really relate well to, since I'm new to this whole thing.

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    Yep, just hang around IRC and the forum, comment on what you have an opinion on, and as long as you're a nice enough guy, you'll do fine!

    And I may be being biased here, as a bit of a grammar fiend[1], but your posts are using proper English, which is always a good sign

    [1] Yes, a grammar fiend who started a paragraph with "and". So sue me

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