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    Default Will it be weird?

    I don't think there's a thread about this, but if there is, just get rid of this one :P

    Okay, so, as diaper lovers, we...love diapers. Obviously. And I don't know about anyone else, but I DO want to have kids some day. The question is, as a person who gets off on diapers or otherwise is interested in them, will it be weird for you to diaper your kids when they're young? I personally am a bit apprehensive.

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    For me personally i don't "get off" on diapers, they are sexy when they are on sexy people, but so are socks =P To me they represent a form of living, a choice to fight the conformity of using toilets and the freedom to do your business on your person, where and whenever you please. So in regards to that i will have to say no i don't think it will be weird at all for me to diaper my kids when i have them. It's nothing to feel weird about, children need them to keep from messing all over the place, and i need them to remember who i am and what it means to be 5.

    The only out of place strange/strong emotion i might feel would be jealousy, that im putting one on them and not on my self at the moment. Of course that statement is speculation as of now because i do not plan on having kids for a long time and have no way to tell how ill feel in the future, but i know that i wont feel weird/guilty or apprehensive about it.

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    the only thing to feel apprehensive about would be if you got sexually excited while changing your kid's diapers. i would definitely feel very uncomfortable if that happened to me, but i don't think it ever would. if you ever have a kid, changing diapers is going to become a very routine, ordinary part of everyday life for you. i wouldn't think you'd have to worry about any inappropriate responses to such a mundane chore.

    still, this is definitely an example of something that makes being a DL more difficult than a lot of other fetishes. these are things that it's important for us to think about and consider that most people would never have to worry about.

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    "a choice to fight the conformity"

    took the words out of my mouth, squishytushy. That's what I live by.

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    Quote Originally Posted by avery View Post
    the only thing to feel apprehensive about would be if you got sexually excited while changing your kid's diapers. i would definitely feel very uncomfortable if that happened to me, but i don't think it ever would. if you ever have a kid, changing diapers is going to become a very routine, ordinary part of everyday life for you. i wouldn't think you'd have to worry about any inappropriate responses to such a mundane chore.

    still, this is definitely an example of something that makes being a DL more difficult than a lot of other fetishes. these are things that it's important for us to think about and consider that most people would never have to worry about.
    I guess you're right; I'm 100% positive I won't be attracted to my children, so I suppose it's like saying "since I'm turned on by seeing naked women, wont seeing my 3 year old daughter naked turn me on? How odd!"

    Thanks guys :>

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    I would say that unless you have a sexual attraction to children, there should be no issue.

    I've thought about this before as well, but if anything it's the diaper that turns me on. And I prefer to look at grown (18+) girls wearing diapers.

    For me it was a little tough transitioning because as a teenager I wanted to see teenage girls in diapers, and I was able to find real photos. Usually the girls had tops on and then just a diaper, but I was comfortable with that.

    I still have those pictures, but now at 26 I don't actually care for them much. And if anything the focus of those is the fact that it's usually a baby diaper which is a cute/sexual thing for me.

    For me, I would have no problem changing my baby/toddler's diaper.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Coops View Post
    I would say that unless you have a sexual attraction to children, there should be no issue.
    For me, wearing a diaper/being changed can be sexual (after all, it is touching my genitals!). However, it can also be totally non sexual if I'm in full AB mode, and I just want to be little.

    The point being, it's the diapers being on me that are the good part, not the diapers themselves. Same with the AB photos/videos - it's only arousing because they are attractive models, not because they are acting like a baby - the AB side of me just wishes I could be playing.

    So whilst I don't know exactly what it will be like to have the lifestyle when I have kids - I know that I will love my children, and want to look after them/keep them safe - there is no overlap between my lifestyle, and being a parent.

    In the same way, (I'm guessing, as I have no experience), if I were a furry, I wouldn't be aroused/confused to look after a pet cat or dog - there would still be the distinction in my mind surrounding it.

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    I don't really think it will be a problem. My kids will NEVER know about my fetish. If they do discover some diapers (inevitable, probably) I would have no problem casually writing it off as some sort of bladder weakness. As long as mom and dad don't act like it's a big deal, I don't think the kids will.

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