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Thread: trouble sleeping... because i can't stop thinking about sex

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    Default trouble sleeping... because i can't stop thinking about sex

    ya.... i can't sleep i just keep starting to fantasize about sex every time i lay in bed. the only thing that i have been able to do is wear a diaper and for some reason that completely stops the fantasizing i i fall asleep within about 10 min when normally it would take me about 20 to 60 min to fall asleep.
    And i'm not sure why but when ever i think about sex in my head i go "hell yes, i want to do "it"" and "o, god no" at the same time, and I'm so confused! My very good friend that i was going to have sex with (mostly likely it's not gonna happen now) said that, this is just from my hormones and hesitation going against each other, but i don't know what to think any more! PLZ help

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    You could always try, you know... masturbating. Assuming I'm interpreting "fantasizing" the right way.

    If you mean thinking about sex in a more intellectual way that's harder. Sex can be confusing. Especially if you've never had it (which is what I'm getting from your post). Maybe it's something you just need to think about a lot to make sense of.

    If you feel that these thoughts are unbearable or have been active in your head for too long I see two options. Either talk to somebody (maybe a counselor or a therapist) or try having sex.

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    Quote Originally Posted by RadGravity View Post
    You could always try, you know... masturbating. Assuming I'm interpreting "fantasizing" the right way.

    If you mean thinking about sex in a more intellectual way that's harder. Sex can be confusing. Especially if you've never had it (which is what I'm getting from your post). Maybe it's something you just need to think about a lot to make sense of.

    If you feel that these thoughts are unbearable or have been active in your head for too long I see two options. Either talk to somebody (maybe a counselor or a therapist) or try having sex.
    i don't like to masturbate, i look at porn A LOT but i don't masturbate very much at all. I still might have sex... but i get really nervous just talking about it and when i get nervous i get really sick

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    Quote Originally Posted by anonymous kiba View Post
    i don't like to masturbate, i look at porn A LOT but i don't masturbate very much at all. I still might have sex... but i get really nervous just talking about it and when i get nervous i get really sick
    I'm not trying to push you into something you don't like here, but why not? I can say from experience that practice makes perfect. Once you know your own body, masturbating is a great way to relieve stress. But hey, if you don't like it you don't.

    As for the nervousness, talking to a counselor of some kind still sounds like a good idea to me. Once again, I know firsthand that talking about sensitive subjects with someone who is completely neutral can do a lot of good.

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    Quote Originally Posted by RadGravity View Post
    You could always try, you know... masturbating.
    Self-abuse to the rescue! Have to agree here. Puts me right out. I get a great night's sleep.

    And BTW, Kiba, if you're looking at porn A LOT, and doing nothing to discharge the build-up, you have only yourself to blame.

    (Porn is MADE for masturbation, FYI.)

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    Oh yes... Hasn't that happened to us all?
    Maybe you should stop wasting this time awake, and watch more porn! =] hehehe

    Hey! You're 17! You can't watch porn! I just have an acception because I'm special.

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    Dude, at 17, if I didn't jerk off at least 3 times a day, I was crawling up the walls. Masturbation is natural and important. You have to learn how your body reacts to stimuli, and what you like and (more importantly) what you don't like. It's also important not to do what Dan Savage calls "the death grip", and vary your routine. If you condition yourself to orgasm only to certain stimuli (this can take a while_, then you can have dysfunction problems when you finally score with a partner.

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    Yeah, if you don't vent a little steam you're gonna explode, and possibly in an inconvenient manner.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bobbyjeff View Post
    Yeah, if you don't vent a little steam you're gonna explode, and possibly in an inconvenient manner.
    I know what you're actually talking about, but I can't help but have this visual of him popping like a water balloon full of chunky soup.

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    I agree with what most other people said...you're building up pressure from natural hormones, looking at porn and thinking about sex all the time. If you don't release it by having an orgasm (however you induce that function...partner, own hand, wet dream), your brain may be quite messed up for a while.
    So even if you don't like masturbation, it sounds like an essential function you have to perform. You're not losing much anyway...within 2 hours, you're back to where you started from at your age

    Peachy

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