TungstenM
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Hellooo, asking for more advice here.
I took my lil guy out today for his first time wearing in public (in a city) and let’s just say it didn’t go as expected.
We were going shopping, getting clothes and presents for family and I had put him in padding before as I thought he’d be cute in them. He was excited however when we got there he was really really cautious, I had checked him to ensure he hadn’t wet which he hadn’t however he was still very cautious and ended up starting to look at everyone and I held his hand and whispered to his ear it’s okay noones looking. I even checked myself and could barely notice as his coat was covering it, however later on he started getting extremely emotional about it and I had to put him back into boxers I had bought from a store. When we got back he said he liked being out in public, however had this constant feeling people were looking and knew and would judge.
How would I support him wearing in public? I felt really bad when he was getting upset but in the same way really cute
I took my lil guy out today for his first time wearing in public (in a city) and let’s just say it didn’t go as expected.
We were going shopping, getting clothes and presents for family and I had put him in padding before as I thought he’d be cute in them. He was excited however when we got there he was really really cautious, I had checked him to ensure he hadn’t wet which he hadn’t however he was still very cautious and ended up starting to look at everyone and I held his hand and whispered to his ear it’s okay noones looking. I even checked myself and could barely notice as his coat was covering it, however later on he started getting extremely emotional about it and I had to put him back into boxers I had bought from a store. When we got back he said he liked being out in public, however had this constant feeling people were looking and knew and would judge.
How would I support him wearing in public? I felt really bad when he was getting upset but in the same way really cute