Bedwetters, are you trying to stay dry?

I can tell you from experience that I loved wetting my diapers in bed and still do. Once a DL always a DL. Let it go and enjoy yourself. That's what the diapers are for. You are not dependent so enjoy your love of diapers !
 
@Eva:

Even those of us who are 'dependent' enjoy the rush of/when wetting. Yes, I'm a DL I was DL prior to bladder incontinence; and a DL since. As you say, 'Once a DL always a DL.'
 
Andrewgdfw said:
@Eva:

Even those of us who are 'dependent' enjoy the rush of/when wetting. Yes, I'm a DL I was DL prior to bladder incontinence; and a DL since. As you say, 'Once a DL always a DL.'

Yes - but this is propably not the kind of bedwetting mentioned by the author of the thread ;-)... I’m also DL and IC - and yes - I also enjoy it if when I do it on purpose (what lucky still work for me). But I hate it if it happens accedently. If I wake up wet, I feel sheeten for the fun of wetting and If my bladder cramps and I wet myself while moving or sitting up I can tell you that this is no fun at all - at last for me.
 
mickdl said:
Yes - but this is propably not the kind of bedwetting mentioned by the author of the thread ;-)... I’m also DL and IC - and yes - I also enjoy it if when I do it on purpose (what lucky still work for me). But I hate it if it happens accedently. If I wake up wet, I feel sheeten for the fun of wetting and If my bladder cramps and I wet myself while moving or sitting up I can tell you that this is no fun at all - at last for me.

Bummer. Being DL and IC myself I absolutely love uncontrollably wetting my diaper and being 100% diaper dependent.
 
@Slomo

:) good to here this. Maybe somewhen I think similar - but for now I propably still in the phase to learn to live with the IC...
 
I’ve tried medications, alarms, everything. I’ve given up and accepted it and just deal with it. It’s just part of my life and I’m fine with it.
 
mickdl said:
@Slomo

:) good to here this. Maybe somewhen I think similar - but for now I propably still in the phase to learn to live with the IC...

Yeah, don't let me fool you. I fought with my IC for a good 10 years before I realized my DL side has no reason to suffer, only benefit from my IC.
 
Slomo said:
Yeah, don't let me fool you. I fought with my IC for a good 10 years before I realized my DL side has no reason to suffer, only benefit from my IC.
I gave up the fight and just enjoy my incontinene now.
 
I to have accepted my need for diapers and have learned to enjoy the benefits of being diapered since I cant change the fact I will be in diapers for the rest of my life I might as well look at the positive side of being diapered as theres no sense in being depressed all the time about being back in diapers.
 
I have also accepted the fact that im gonna be in Diapers and al the rest for whats left of my life. And i can say im thankful for the protection it gives me and the possibility it gives me to actually not live my life a few feets from the nearest bathroom. so i dont see a need to get depressed and feel bad or ashamed of this.
 
Personally I have an incontinence, psychological, minor. I already tried the method of not drinking enough at night, and I noticed something quite inconsistent, the less I drink (in a limit livable) the more my luck I have to wake up wet, is no longer my diaper is filled. As much as I understand fecal incontinent people who would like to get rid of it. As much as I do not do not understand people who are urinary incontinence and DL, I mean you have a justification, but most of all you have the advantage of not having to get up to go chasing after toilet, sleep is something sacred. For non-DL people but incontinent, I understand that it's hard to say that we do not do anything wrong, since education tells us the opposite, but there is really nothing wrong with wearing a disposable diaper, especially if you have trouble falling asleep and falling asleep again after an awakening in the middle of the night, when I was younger, I got up at least once a night, I can guarantee you, that I would have liked to have disposable diapers at that age, I am already looking at the time means to not have to get up at night, it's very frustrating to have this awake at night for something completely dispensable. So if you are incontinent at night or days stopped hurting yourself by telling you that it's wrong, use enough thick disposable diapers to change them often enough, and you will not have any more risk of overflow, which will allow you to understand how disposable diapers are an advantage unlike always having to run to the WC.

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If you have urinary or faecal loss, it is important to consult first, there may be important medical reasons behind it, so the first thing to do is always go consult a specialist in this case.
 
I try and stay as dry as possible, by taking mirabegron and using the toilet when I feel the urge, but the truth is my bladder nerves are scrambled as the whole lower half of my body is in severe chronic nerve pain. As such I need to wear diapers 24/7, as my bladder can empty without warning at any point.

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No, I don't try to stay dry - I like the feeling of waking up in a soaked diaper :).
 
The only dry I try to keep, is my bed. I use good premium diapers, and always wake up soaked. I also use a bed mat so it catches any leaks. My bed has stayed dry (and clean) this way for a very long time.
 
Adult_Bedwetter said:
No, I don't try to stay dry - I like the feeling of waking up in a soaked diaper :).

Me too.
 
I try to stay dry at night when I can.

It's been ground into me—grown ups stay dry at night. Every night since I was five. But I wasn't dry then. Not during the day, and not during the night. I wet the bed straight through to eight before I stopped…

And then it came back at 13 and never went away. At least half the month I would have to change my sheets surreptitiously under the guise of having suddenly become sensitive to the detergents my folks used. We must have changed brands 12 times before the time I was allowed to do my own laundry and I could get away with it without questions being asked of me.

Imagine it: high school, going on the computer to look up causes of bedwetting and how to stop it, with a note stuck to my shirt with the instructions for how to clear the history. I even had copies of the Doctor's Book of Home Remedies and I tried them all. Nothing worked.

The first time I tried a diaper I was desperate. I'd wet the bed three days a week for three weeks. I just wanted a dry bed. That was all.
I didn't expect to take to them like I would. But that first time waking up too late but with a dry bed was strangely wonderful, and I had an actual night of sleep. And the feeling of soft-warm was nice, too.

Now most nights I sleep padded. It's a safe bet that I will have an accident, so I prepare for it now.
 
I was an occasional bedwetter as a child, but I've had oab and nocturia for as long as I can remember. When my urge ic got worse in my late teens and early 20's, I began bedwetting more and more. I've been wearing a diaper every night for 26 years and wet in my sleep pretty much every night. I don't try to stop it because once I started wearing thicker diapers at night, I slept much much better. I do, however, try to limit my fluids an hour before bedtime because I've had plenty of nights when my really thick diaper has leaked.
 
No, not anymore. I cherish my night sleep more. So I adapted and after trying everything. I resorted to diapers and didn’t care afterwards. Now I wake almost every morning, wet warm and fully rested after a long nights sleep.

IC in the daytime as well.


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I try but am not successful all the time. I don't worry about it too much and just wear my cloth diapers and plastic pants every night.
 
No, I don't. I wet the bed almost every night until I was 12. I then had occasional accidents until the age of 14.
I fell of a horse 6 years ago which caused some nerve damage in my back. I was officially diagnosed with an OAB and had random accidents at night. I started wearing diapers which allowed me to experiment when I would have an accident.
It turned out that if I would drink a glass of water before bed and not completely empty the bladder at the last void, was my recipe to wet the bed without waking up. I can now most of the times predict when I would wet. I'm pretty sure I can apply the same thinking if I would ever want to try to remain dry again.
 
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