Bro we need to talk !
1st if you want to be a baby be a baby when you can or need or want ,it doesn't have to be your primary or only lifestyle .
2. Your mom has wiped your butt and many other things many times,not a big deal ,if you have told her in the past she knows,if you think she will be casual about you openly wearing DO IT,the worst that happens is she says she's not that cool about put shorts on.
You didn't really mention dad so I will not go there,in my birth family my father was an abusive asshole at all times ,i was very lucky that 1.i got adopted 2.by a single woman ,so I never had to deal with anyone male that was a jerk again intentionally.
Finnally let me say a moms love is endless ,mine was proud as hell of who i was ,every graduation ,every promotion ,every medal ceremony,she was there beaming and proud ,and i got majorly physicaly sick,the Department put out me out to pasture on compassionate disability( that is short for no cure,no treatment it will be fatal enjoy your time left ) i can go anywhere and show my brass pass and be king for the day ,but i avoid it ,i would rather people remember me as i was ,not the broken cripple i am.Moms not around she died in february of 2008 of cancer ,but in diapers in a wheelchair as so much less than I was ,NOTHING CHANGED ,she was still damn proud of me ,it was actually a joke between us ,she adopted me as a potty trained kid ,thought she could escape diaper duty,i guess I showed her ! Before the end of her life she had to help me clean up and changed a few diapers.i could tell you more but i don't want to bore you ,and I was adopted but we made a stronger bond of unconditional love (a psychiatrist told us if any 10 biologic families had what we did the world would be a better place,when I first got sick and they figured out what I had , my doctor innocently called me and said he wanted to admit me for some tests, that night they moved me to little slice of Bellevue, a locked your not leaving place until we are sure your not going to just off yourself and get it over ,i was mad as hell and threatened fire and brimstone for all involved in kidnapping me ,They just politiley told me my doctor needed to talk to me ,i not so politiley told them i dont care if he wants to tell me that dream of aliens probing my retum wasnt a dream ,he could do alot less dramaticly. He did the right thing once he told me ,i truly needed to be there.
My Mom was teaching in Europe when my aunt reached her she literaly commandeered a jumbo jet ,having it held from departure for 15 minutes because the next flight to the US was 18 hours , then in the air, convinced the crew to declare an in-flight emergency so instead of landing in LaGuardia it landed in buffalo just long enough for her to get off with her luggage and go thru customs in buffalo and jump in my aunt's car for the 90 minute ride here.) Her love never wavered it was about as unconditional as it gets ,mine wavered once I didn't call her for 4 years she junked my almost fully restored 69 dodge dart ,i was pissed ,in reality she unknowingly did me a favor ,i would never wrench on it again never drive it again ,it would be a symbol of what I have lost ,she didn't deserve a junkyard I hope somebody said awesome free car and took it home and is doing massive burnouts right now,it's just about time to put them away for the year here in here in the rust belt,if you l9ve it give it a garage or it will be crap in 4 years.Thank God that was before she got cancer and got well screwed by genetics .
So after saying all that ,what is it that you want from your mom ,acceptance? Permission? Approval? It sounds like you already have that on some level,
it almost sounds like you want to explore adult baby at home but you want her to tell you its allright 1st?
She probably has not the foggiest idea of adult baby,unless there's something kink related in her past ,if its there it ain't adult baby ,that's a relatively new term in the age of everything has to have a label and description ,your mom won't have a frame of reference,theres probably been diaper lovers since our moms packed us in grass and moss and changed it and rinsed us off in the stream weekly ,we will never know truly unless theres "dead sea pamper scolls" somewhere waiting to be discovered (somewhere between the vaseline ,powder and gerbers baby pants,if someone looks hard enough) kidding! Your young enough to have sported disposables your whole life ,my diapers where well broken in when i got them (in birth family i was the youngest of three ,so those diapers and rubber pants had seen heavy action in the four years before I arrived . But again any kink fetish or lifestyle choice can be a trend,can be a passing fancy abandoned for other pursuits , or can be permanent we don't know till we try ,it's like girl friends or boy friends,you will test drive many and hopefully find the perfect fit and make them your wife,your life someone you share the deepest parts of you with ,they accept us despite our many flaws and rough spots ,if you like diapers those too , everything in this life is trial and error ,try all you like keep the good and pass on the bad .
It noble of you to say Moms roof moms rules ,alot of people dont get that or sneak around get caught embarassed and it fades into history till the next time . I really have this feeling that you dont know the question,so mom probably doesn't have the answer until you figure out the question and even then she may not have a definitive one .
As I said in another post I am sitting on bus or in bus station at the moment ,so this gets my fullest attention and long wordy answers ,i have nothing to do but pass time, answer questions and hopefully reflect back some of what I learned both in life and the school of you have got to be kidding, you want me to do what for how long ? And then what ! There is no easy course thru this life just live and try. Got patience for one more reflection?
My adoptive mom was a psychologist ,having a fit on the phone with an old friend of hers "I laid out the perfect course for him,to avoid every hidden trap and misfortune on the road to life , but he's not following it ,he's doing it the hard way ,i could have steered him away from it ,he never would have had his heart broken or his honor tested ,his intentions questioned ,the whole thing .
She was told your parents did that for you too,what did you do ? That's what kids do, they learn the hard way ,it's not a lesson if somebody else tells you it is ,it's only a lesson once you have taken your lumps and lived thru it .
I thought I was dead meat when I got suspended from high school carried that letter home to my mom ,i threatened to brake a chemistry teachers hand for inappropriately touching a female classmate when the principal asked me if i meant it my answer was "touch a student that way and you'll find out", little did I know ,my mom new she taught me right that day ,I stood up regardless of the consequences and defended them ,from what I thought was wrong and when taken to task on it ,I didn't quibble ,grovel, or say the right thing so there would be no consequences ,i followed what I though was right.
20 years later my mom tells me ,i would have hired you a lawyer ,if you needed one ,you behaved like a man ,i didn't waste my time teaching you ,you learned and did what you were taught the right thing ,you weren't willing to compromise on right and wrong(this happened in the library at the high school , the key to why that was trouble was because the librarian was the town Judge ,oddly his name was Mo,i often wondered where Curly and Shemp were bailiff and chief of police maybe ? Who cares i graduated high school 30 years ago ,i still talk to the girl but never seen the teacher since ,hes probably dead. I am not yet there but avoiding death is becoming more challenging LOL.
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