I’ve been with my currently girlfriend for almost a year. I gave her the talk only a few weeks in, as I’m over hiding my ‘demons’ (as many vanillas would call our hobby) from people I think I may wind up having a longterm relationship with.
Now, Invisioning things from her point of view, I kept things out of her sight just to kind of ease things in. She saw me wearing the first time, when she woke me up. It didn’t phase her at all, so I wore more and more. After talking about our wildest fantasies one night, I told her my big one would be a female wearing, while doing *other things*. She seemed confident and said “Alright, I’ll do it.”
So she wore for the first time. She had mixed feelings in the beginning but came to enjoy it. She said it felt really great. She would bring it up sometimes in conversation. Just a few nights ago, we were in bed, and she asked me ‘can we get comfortable?’ That quickly became our code phrase. She was the one to ask, normally she’ll ask if I’d like to get padded up, but never ‘can we?’ Now, I try to be her man most nights but I said of course! I bought a pack of bambinos and she went through almost all of them, as she pouted when I told her she was almost out, so I got a half case more coming just for her to use.
It just comes across as odd to me. I’ve never really heard much of this before. Maybe she just likes it because I do? I specifically asked her and she told me no, they feel really good. She likes baby powder, and the process of getting changed, I think. Has anybody else ever introduced this to somebody and had them begin to enjoy it on their own accord? I’d like to hear instances about friends, relationships, anything. Maybe it’s just the quality of the abdl products, or maybe the world is just getting more relaxed and open. I’m not sure. I’d like to hear about other stories of this happening, even though they may be rare.
Now, Invisioning things from her point of view, I kept things out of her sight just to kind of ease things in. She saw me wearing the first time, when she woke me up. It didn’t phase her at all, so I wore more and more. After talking about our wildest fantasies one night, I told her my big one would be a female wearing, while doing *other things*. She seemed confident and said “Alright, I’ll do it.”
So she wore for the first time. She had mixed feelings in the beginning but came to enjoy it. She said it felt really great. She would bring it up sometimes in conversation. Just a few nights ago, we were in bed, and she asked me ‘can we get comfortable?’ That quickly became our code phrase. She was the one to ask, normally she’ll ask if I’d like to get padded up, but never ‘can we?’ Now, I try to be her man most nights but I said of course! I bought a pack of bambinos and she went through almost all of them, as she pouted when I told her she was almost out, so I got a half case more coming just for her to use.
It just comes across as odd to me. I’ve never really heard much of this before. Maybe she just likes it because I do? I specifically asked her and she told me no, they feel really good. She likes baby powder, and the process of getting changed, I think. Has anybody else ever introduced this to somebody and had them begin to enjoy it on their own accord? I’d like to hear instances about friends, relationships, anything. Maybe it’s just the quality of the abdl products, or maybe the world is just getting more relaxed and open. I’m not sure. I’d like to hear about other stories of this happening, even though they may be rare.