daylight
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Ever notice before you sneeze, you pause what you are doing? Stop walking. Focus narrows, eyes water, inhale, and...nothing.
In my case, bladder leakage/spasms are kind of like this. It is either a 'oh!', an immediate whoosh, there you go. The nonchalant hand to the seat/front of pants check. Excuse me while I go change [again].
Or it is like a sneeze, you pause, the bladder is speaking, an increasing gradient of uninitiated, unstoppable contraction. And sigh nothing or the 'ooh did I just wet myself' look.
And intervention kind of hurts. If I wake up in this state, it is mostly a foregone conclusion that my bladder will ache all day. You know that deep, constant, knotted pain that rides behind your daily stream of thought.
How about driving? I find if my bladder is already aching, driving exasperates it [a lot]. I feel beat up down below after an hour drive. The up side is our roads are so bad that the resulting vibrations/jolts causes my bladder to lock down (not leak, hurt yes). However, once stopped, it's that frozen look of a prelude.
I wonder, and ask, how many others experience the same thing? If not, what is your prelude to 'go'?
Thanks,
D
In my case, bladder leakage/spasms are kind of like this. It is either a 'oh!', an immediate whoosh, there you go. The nonchalant hand to the seat/front of pants check. Excuse me while I go change [again].
Or it is like a sneeze, you pause, the bladder is speaking, an increasing gradient of uninitiated, unstoppable contraction. And sigh nothing or the 'ooh did I just wet myself' look.
And intervention kind of hurts. If I wake up in this state, it is mostly a foregone conclusion that my bladder will ache all day. You know that deep, constant, knotted pain that rides behind your daily stream of thought.
How about driving? I find if my bladder is already aching, driving exasperates it [a lot]. I feel beat up down below after an hour drive. The up side is our roads are so bad that the resulting vibrations/jolts causes my bladder to lock down (not leak, hurt yes). However, once stopped, it's that frozen look of a prelude.
I wonder, and ask, how many others experience the same thing? If not, what is your prelude to 'go'?
Thanks,
D