Same. I live in Florida next to a fairly large city that I think should have plenty of ABDL's, but I just simply cannot find them. I joined a little's group for the area on Fetlife and on Kik, but the group seems to be dying because of incredibly small numbers. Plus I haven't been able to make any munches or get-togethers. My biggest concern with making new friends are those who are in it just for the sex. All the messages I get on FL whenever I interact with a group are dudes, mostly gay, looking for a quick booty call and that's it. Or when I tell them that I'm an ABDL, they think it's ok to treat me like I'm their submissive. On the flip side, most women on FL don't allow random men to message, befriend, or interact with them as per their committed partners. It's been incredibly hard for me to find others in my area because of this.