last week i took a friend to the hospital for a series of tests. while there a woman in her mid 20s? arrived. she was wearing white pants and a flowered top, and sat right across from me. she was also there for tests and clearly scared because she was clutching a stuffed bear so tighly its eyes were almost popping out. she went in for her test, and came back smiling and much releaved. she leaned over to get her backpack, and i could clearly see a white diaper showing through the seat of her pants. i thought to myself, that is why I am wearing very black jeans here--no one will see MY diaper. (and my friend's tests turned out ok too)