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Jacko03 said:Blimey some of these replies are harsh. Certeinly not the reaction I was expecting.
SweetPrincess said:I think you guys are being a little harsh on him.
Firstly some of you are claiming him to be an exhibitionist. The fact he chose a relatively quiet location and within close walking distance to a toilet being able to be unseen should be proof that, that isn't the case. If he were he would of chosen the busiest location possible.
Second thing. When he says "staged a wetting" I don't think he meant for it to leak. As if you read the post he "stopped immediately" upon realising he is leaking and immediately changes out of it to reduce being seen and involving others. He also complains about the trust worthiness of Tena adding to the fact he didn't intend it to leak.
He made an accident and lucky was smart enough to plan for it in case it did happen to involve as few people as possible.
Now I don't agree with holding your pee all day as that could damage your bladder and of course flooding a nappy will cause a higher chance of leaks. But hopefully he knows now that flooding a nappy especially in public isn't such a good idea.
All I am saying is if others say it's ok to wet in public then this is no different to that. And I have read many posts where people say they wet in public and try to keep it discrete and many people here seem to think that is acceptable. If it hadn't of leaked what would of your response been? To me it reads like an accident he didn't intend for it to leak.xpluswearer said:The member of course could have chose another location uh like their shower at home? Garage? basement no?
So therefore the member is guilty of exhibitionism full stop. Again do not subject others whom would take offense to the display and to your purposeful act of elimination of bodily fluids even though the member stopped still even though store was empty except for the employee who was subjected to the display. Sorry its just my opinion here. You should not infringe on others to satisfy a thrill or experiment do it at home please!
xpluswearer said:The member of course could have chose another location uh like their shower at home? Garage? basement no?
So therefore the member is guilty of exhibitionism full stop. Again do not subject others whom would take offense to the display and to your purposeful act of elimination of bodily fluids even though the member stopped still even though store was empty except for the employee who was subjected to the display. Sorry its just my opinion here. You should not infringe on others to satisfy a thrill or experiment do it at home please!
SweetPrincess said:All I am saying is if others say it's ok to wet in public then this is no different to that. And I have read many posts where people say they wet in public and try to keep it discrete and many people here seem to think that is acceptable. If it hadn't of leaked what would of your response been? To me it reads like an accident he didn't intend for it to leak.
Of course you could do it at home and perhaps a better way would be to pee your nappy while in the toilet cubicle like you would normally. All I am doing is just trying to reveal the double standards as like I've said many here say they pee in public areas or even at work while wearing diapers and no one takes a jab at them.
normalguy said:And in this thread, again, we see how easy it is for people to force their own life-rules on to others.
[paraphrased]
"I don't enjoy public humiliation, so you shouldn't too!"
"I don't get to have fun with my diapers, so you shouldn't too!"
"I wouldn't intentionally wet in public, so you shouldn't too!"
Chill. Your life-rules are yours for a reason - they work for you. You don't have any right to force your life-rules on to someone completely different, doing so makes you a bigot.
bambinod said:It's not black-and-white. It's about compromise and moderation.
I really have a problem with people saying "I don't like it when someone does that, so they shouldn't be allowed to do that", but at the same time I also have a problem with people that do things that they know are going to be disturbing to a significant number of people, with an apparent lack of consideration for how it will be needlessly distressing them.
"Just because you don't find it disturbing, and don't think others should find it disturbing, doesn't change the fact that you are intentionally and knowingly causing an unnecessarily large amount of distress to others." -- Be as considerate of others as you would like them to be of you. ("don't shove it in my face")