I'm not sure any of these things are mutually exclusive. I'm in diapers 24/7 (because I need to be, but also do enjoy it from time to time), and I love to fix/build things, regardless of how good I might be (I like learning new things). I also have the ability to pay any pro to do a job (and for the larger ones, I certainly do defer to them to have the job "done right"), but I almost always prefer to do it myself if I can. This routinely bothers my wife though, who doesn't like me taking time to figure out how something works before it gets fixed, haha.