Diaper training

I've been giving this some thought. I would like to be in diapers more than undies. In fact I would just loss my undies if possible. I wouldn't want to loss all of my control or any of it if possible. The thickness of some diapers tend to worry me when it comes to public wearing, I know this is my choice in the end but would like advice and the wisdom of others in this

I want the same thing!

Now granted I don't walk ,but i can wear a double boosted NS a onesie and khakis and the only person who knows is my aid , some of my specialist doctors even forget,they will need a urine specimen and say do you need help in the bathroom ,and i am like "nope just go outside" as I pullout a cath to tap the reserve( my bladder never fully empties unless i do it ) at that point they remeber oh yeah hes diapered ,its really pretty easy to hide ,and i dont work to hide it if there family or friend or aide they know , but a stranger cant tell( many will assume if your in a wheelchair you do, which is wrong and offensive ,because immediately post injury it's a never ending after each meal suppository diaper rest change therapy eat do it all again ,once a person can demonstrate both continence ànd independent bowel and bladder management it's a big milestone that people are real touchy about ,anything you can do for yourself gets people riled up ,it takes awhile to adjust to being crippled and it becomes something of "pride & prejudice" ,but anyway basic camofluge and confidence goes along way ,get your mind off being nervous and self conscious , just rock it like it was tighty whiteys , it not illegal ,immoral or fattening ,calorie free happyness .

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Good for you Tetra!!!! Everyone should just do what makes THEM happy and comfortable. If someone else has an issue with it, we’ll....That’s THEIR problem to solve now isn’t it?


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Terrorist want to kill people because it makes them happy. And we have to deal with that problem too :/

I checked my records and saw that over the last five years, I've been 24/7 a bit more often than not. I am right now and it's not that hard to do, depending on your lifestyle. You really shouldn't have any concern about loss of control if you continue to use your diapers as if you were using the toilet. Even if you make an effort to relax yourself, that typically just results in a period of transition back but if you really want to be sure, just hold and release.

Get yourself a diaper bag and find what kinds of diapers you'll need for different situations. Give it a try for a bit and see if you like it.

KryanAshford said:

I've been giving this some thought. I would like to be in diapers more than undies. In fact I would just loss my undies if possible.

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Cut them into pieces, place your unboxed diapers in your drawer exactly in the place where your undies usually are.
I dare you to post a nice photo in this thread as proof.

Providing that you don't want to mess in public:
As the other diaperbutts above already mentioned, wearing 24\7 is not a big deal and you will get used to it fast. Nobody would notice unless you want to. Wear black or dark trousers in case of leaks.
Becoming diaper trained usually takes two weeks uninterupted usage. You'll not become incontinent from wearing 24\7. It becomes just a habit to use your diapers without thinking about it. But it's not easy to use my diaper knowing it would leak or burst, or if you don't have a fresh diaper by the hand to change, or if you have no chance to change it discreetly and all this will make you clench and hold until better circumstances. Also it is not easy to use it while walking, in front of other persons, or when feeling unsafe in any way. But you may train these steps one after the other if you like to.

Now get a scissors and say goodbye to your undies 4ever ;D

I said by-bye to underpants 3 decades ago.
I have very angry hateful thoughts and feelings towards "underpants".
I do not even use the toilet.
I only sit on the toilet to change my wet and poopy diapers.
Only means of clean-up for me is simply "Baby Wipes", instead of regular toilet paper.
Everything dirty from my diapers to baby wipes only gets put in my diaper pail in my bathroom here at home.
I am permanently un-potty-trained.

KryanAshford said:

I've been giving this some thought. I would like to be in diapers more than undies. In fact I would just loss my undies if possible. I wouldn't want to loss all of my control or any of it if possible. The thickness of some diapers tend to worry me when it comes to public wearing, I know this is my choice in the end but would like advice and the wisdom of others in this

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Funny you should say that. I just went 24/7 (kind of) starting yesterday. I already have ordered a case of preschool plastic. I say kind of because I don't use the toilet in the house except to dispose of poo. And I wear pullups to work but don't use them at work and still use the toilet there. But at home the toilet is off limits and I have to use nappies. No one notices I wear pullups to work either so If I can get away with using at work too then I'll do that but just taking one step at a time as of now. I am only on day too so far and it's good I'm loving it.

Preschool plastic is thinner but less absorbent. For me that's fine because really the only time I use the full capacity of thicker ones is when I am asleep. Maybe try that for daytime use if you're worried?

SP has some great advice there for starting off and seeing how things progress.

I too hate underwear but would recommend you sort through your underwear pile and just naturally discard any older ones to the trash and put your remaining ones in a box or old trunk just in case.

Yeah, don't toss out all of your underwear at first. The first step is to just start wearing diapers 24/7. You don't even have to fully use the diapers either, if you don't want to. Give it a few months, then see if being 24/7 is as good as you thought I'd be. You'd be surprised how many DLs change their minds when they realise the grass is not always greener on the other side. Especially once diaper supply costs hit your bank account.

And as always, wear relaxed or loose fit pants, one size larger than normal, to accomodate for the bulk of the diaper. Black as well to hide any wet spots from leaks. And lastly, also wear a good diaper cover to catch any leaks and help you to notice them quicker too. As a bonus, PUL pants will also help muffle out any diaper crinkling if you're worried about that.

KryanAshford said:

I've been giving this some thought. I would like to be in diapers more than undies. In fact I would just loss my undies if possible. I wouldn't want to loss all of my control or any of it if possible. The thickness of some diapers tend to worry me when it comes to public wearing, I know this is my choice in the end but would like advice and the wisdom of others in this

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Keep in mind there is a nontrivial cost to that hobby, and there may be situations where you do not want to wear a diaper. There is also an issue of storage space, depending on how well-stocked you want to be. I went mostly 24/7 a few years ago and don't regret it at all. I'm not untrained, though there are specific times I tend to wet my diapers, like some afternoons around the time I'm getting off work, and I almost never wake up dry in the morning. I use the bathroom for #2 and for much of the day, and I find that's a good balance where I can enjoy my diapers without them becoming too much work or inconvenience. Kind of a "best of both worlds".

My "diaper therapy" has helped me (mostly) overcome my shy bladder, tough obviously I'm not using a stand-up urinal anymore

Most people experience no loss of control evern after years of wearing a lot, and I'm in that camp. If anything, I have more control than I did before. If I get an urge, I briefly consider whether or not I want to wet my diaper, and if I do, then wet it gets. To improve my command over my bladder, I've tried to make the lag-time between the decision and the wetting be as short as possible. For example if I'm at home outside filing the birdbath and that triggers an urge, I expect to be able to start wetting my diaper before the birdbath is full, and finish somewhere during the walk back to the house. So for me, "diaper training" means being able to wet my diaper in any situation - something I can't say that I've mastered yet.

I'm still on the fence as to whether or not to throw away my regular underwear. I'll probably throw most of them away and keep a pair or two in some inconvenient location in case the need arises. On my last vacation, I made a point of not taking any underwear with me, assuring I would be "forced to wear diapers" all week. Even though I was 24/7 by then, that was still a fun angle to be getting dressed in the morning and looking in my suitcase and realize my nearest underwear were 300 miles away and so I had no choice but to put on a diaper. I made a point of wearing my thickest diapers for overnight while on vacation, to insure that a leak wasn't going to happen.

I also still retain full control overnight. I wake up every hour or so anyway, so if I have any bladder pressure at all, I wet my diaper and fall back asleep. So again this is pretty well in line with my "diaper training". (this also ha really improved my sleep) On the rare occasion I'm worried about a leak I'll get up and change, but fortunately that doesn't happen very often.

It's easier to wear 24/7 and be in public if your diaper is thin and dry, which is how I spend most of my days. I've tried many brands and my current favorite for comfort/cost/discreetness/availability is Tykables Little Builders. (purpose-designed for light duty/discreet wear-to-work/school) A case of 80 little builders worn one per weekday will last 16 weeks, or over 3 months. Their velcro makes them easy to remove and refasten for potty-breaks.

I'd also suggest you get a "go bag" (/bug-out bag) going for your vehicle. Find a discreet backpack with TWO large zipped compartments. In the front, a change or two of socks, tshirt, shorts, and maybe some deodorant and toothbrush/toothpaste makes a convincing "stranded bag". Put one thick and two thin diapers in the back compartment, along with whatever changing supplies you prefer and maybe some skin care. Put each diaper in its own 2gal ziploc freezer bag to protect it, and for sealed disposal if needed. Also include a non-transparent garbage bag (drum liners work well) and a few twist ties. Remove the pull from your diaper compartment, to make it difficult for anyone else to accidentally open. You can leave this in the car in case you need a change on the go or get stranded somewhere for a day or end up staying overnight somewhere unexpectedly. Or just grab your "overnight bag" if you are invited to join the posse unexpectedly and think you might need it where you're going. If anyone in your group questions it, pull out and show them your shirt or socks to demonstrate how smart you were to be prepared! (the shorts may also come in handy if you find you have leaked and need a quick change while at work or school for example) Northshore makes a really handy compact pouch of wipes too.

I actually enjoy not wearing diapers most of the time, they're a special time item for me...

Best way to do this training is just in habits. By wearing each day and not wetting get comfortable with wearing them, learn how they work and find the right diaper for you, and don't force. Mabey wear them to bed with you can . When your body is used to it or you feel comfortable, mabey sit on the toilet and wet them when nobody is home. Over time your brain will put two and two together if you want to be use them for wetting.

If you dont want to wet, start thin or transition. Once you find the right diaper to comfort you, buy at least 30-50 of them and pack away or get rid of underwear entirely or get 1 pack just in case you don't want diapers a few days or need to go out on buisiness. Hope this helps!

P.s encouragement helps, but beware of these fake hypnosis videos and text to speech on YouTube claiming they can do it in a night or instantly. It's a long process. Look into your reasons your doing it and enforce it.

loss of controll? lol it may be inevidable you'll get to used to the diaps and well you'll end up weakening the muscles and you'll undo all your potty-training. do this at your own risk

This is more about replacing Undies with diapers. I plan on retaining some control if not all

BabyLeon said:

loss of controll? lol it may be inevidable you'll get to used to the diaps and well you'll end up weakening the muscles and you'll undo all your potty-training. do this at your own risk

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There is nothing inevitable about that. If it is even a risk, it would require a conscious effort to relax the bladder over time. Diapers might be magical and all but not that way.

KryanAshford said:

I've been giving this some thought. I would like to be in diapers more than undies. In fact I would just loss my undies if possible. I wouldn't want to loss all of my control or any of it if possible. The thickness of some diapers tend to worry me when it comes to public wearing, I know this is my choice in the end but would like advice and the wisdom of others in this

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I am so happy when wearing a diaper. I sometimes wear 24/7. I haven’t lost any control. I am able to use my diaper a lot easier than when I first started wearing. I never did throw out my undies. I wear the boxer briefs over mine. It helps hide the outline, helps prevent sag, and keeps everything quiet. I wear Crinklz or PeekABU’s in public all the time. I even wear them around people that I know. Nobody has ever noticed or given me a weird stare.

At times when wearing over a several day period it can become a habit for me to just let go. However I have never EVER lost any control, or even had an actual incident in my pant while not wearing. So I’d say losing all control just by wearing and using a diaper is a myth. Plus I’m sure non of us actually want to be incon.


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