Scamander14
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Here's the thing: I want to explain the Golden Mean. The golden mean is the middle of too much and too little. You can eat too much or too little. If you the right amount, you have achieved your Golden Mean of eating. Now, being a practicing AB/DL is not wrong. Period.
If you indulge in it too much, it becomes a problem. If you indulge in it too little, you may find yourself being depressed; that is if it is a de-stresser. As long as you can be a mature man, and be an AB/DL; there is nothing wrong with it. Just make sure to check in with yourself every know and then to make sure you are still within the Golden Mean of being a practicing AB/DL.
Do you choose to wear diapers instead of practicing the music for the next service(s)?
Do you buy more diapers instead of buying bread at the grocery store?
A yes answer to those questions would mean you are indulging too much.
Do you find yourself more stressed and irritable?
Have you lost your temper with people?
If you answer yes to these two questions, I must ask you this: when is the last time you regressed and had a AB-filled weekend to recharge?
Again, it is about finding balance. God wants you to be happy and to prosper. I had a mental-epsiode in 2016 because I couldn't accept my AB/DL side. My mom doesn't like it and she said that she just doesn't want to see it around the house. I use an Onion Router whenever I look at AB-related stuff on the Internet. Whenever I have (new) adult responsibilities to take care of, I put the pacifier down. (I am 18.)
"For as a man thinkteth in his heart, so is he. Eat and drink saith to thee, but his heart is not with thee." Proverbs 23:7.
If you indulge in it too much, it becomes a problem. If you indulge in it too little, you may find yourself being depressed; that is if it is a de-stresser. As long as you can be a mature man, and be an AB/DL; there is nothing wrong with it. Just make sure to check in with yourself every know and then to make sure you are still within the Golden Mean of being a practicing AB/DL.
Do you choose to wear diapers instead of practicing the music for the next service(s)?
Do you buy more diapers instead of buying bread at the grocery store?
A yes answer to those questions would mean you are indulging too much.
Do you find yourself more stressed and irritable?
Have you lost your temper with people?
If you answer yes to these two questions, I must ask you this: when is the last time you regressed and had a AB-filled weekend to recharge?
Again, it is about finding balance. God wants you to be happy and to prosper. I had a mental-epsiode in 2016 because I couldn't accept my AB/DL side. My mom doesn't like it and she said that she just doesn't want to see it around the house. I use an Onion Router whenever I look at AB-related stuff on the Internet. Whenever I have (new) adult responsibilities to take care of, I put the pacifier down. (I am 18.)
"For as a man thinkteth in his heart, so is he. Eat and drink saith to thee, but his heart is not with thee." Proverbs 23:7.