No, but I can't ever remember wetting the bed except for once. But my mother would often say I would talk in my sleep. She would walk in my room and tell me to go to the toilet. The next morning I never remembered going to the toilet at all.
I had a friend who did wet the bed. the solution was his mom set an alarm for something like 2AM. It would go off and he would go to the toilet. And that finished the problem.
And another that had the alarm that went off when it sensed the first dribble. It still left PJs that had a little wet. But the kid could change PJs and not wake mom. And that was alright for her and him.
I was spanked and I spanked my kids but never for anything that I wasn't sure they did have control over. I had 3 girls and often they all would be in trouble.
One time the group got in trouble. The younger two admitted it but the oldest kept lying that she hadn't. I think she had escaped a couple of times, but I was suspicious. This time I spied and knew she was guilty.
Well all three of them got paddled for what they did. But I told the older one to stand in the corner because she lied. And about half an hour later I got her and gave her a nasty bare bottomed strapping.
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A couple of hours later the youngest one came and told me that her sister had lied. I told her that I wouldn't have done what I did unless I was sure she lied. And, as far as I know, stopped any of them from lying to me.
But to pat myself on the back being 100% sure the child really had control is earth shakingly important. And finding a non spanking solution needs always to be tried first.
I'm sorry you weren't treated better. Try and understand that (I'd wager) she had other problems. Did she act responsibly when spanking at other times?
My wife had a mother with problems. She said she would get spanked for nothing and other times she expected to get spanked but didn't. Left her very confused.
