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Hey guys!
I've always been very good looking, but I don't have much dating experience. Which of course, makes the idea of dating even scarier when I have a DL fetish.
I am an HSP (Highly Sensitive Person) and my mind is an enormous "What if" generator. In these situations, I often fear the worst when it probably won't happen.
Right now, I am scared to date women. I feel like I wouldn't be able to enjoy the relationship and live in the moment because I am always going to have incredible anxiety over the fact that I will eventually have to tell her about it. I feel like I would be living in constant anxiety and would end up telling her too soon just to get it off my chest. I know this is something that I can get over once I connect with more of you guys.
I think the problem is right now is that I don't have any AB/DL friends. I just told my parents about my DL fetish last week (which went very well), and that was the first time I have ever told someone about it.
I think I need to make some DL friends first before I start dating. If you think about it: any time you have a breakup with someone, it's going to hurt and you're probably going to need someone to talk to to help process your emotions.
But let's say the relationship ended over my fetishes (that's my "what if" mind coming into play). I can't talk to any of my friends about that, because they probably wouldn't understand the fetish and telling them about it would be too frightening.
It's the worst predicament to be in. I can either a.) Keep my breakup emotions bottled up inside and have a nervous breakdown, or b.) talk to my non-DL friends about my breakup, lose a lot of friends, and have a nervous breakdown lol.
So what I really need is to spend more time on here and make some friends where we can confide and support each other, and have each others' backs when no one else will understand. I need help and validation from this community to help me accept and embrace this part of myself before I can start dating again.
I've kept this part of myself secret for FAR too long, and it's time to start opening up about it. Thank you so much for reading guys!
I've always been very good looking, but I don't have much dating experience. Which of course, makes the idea of dating even scarier when I have a DL fetish.
I am an HSP (Highly Sensitive Person) and my mind is an enormous "What if" generator. In these situations, I often fear the worst when it probably won't happen.
Right now, I am scared to date women. I feel like I wouldn't be able to enjoy the relationship and live in the moment because I am always going to have incredible anxiety over the fact that I will eventually have to tell her about it. I feel like I would be living in constant anxiety and would end up telling her too soon just to get it off my chest. I know this is something that I can get over once I connect with more of you guys.
I think the problem is right now is that I don't have any AB/DL friends. I just told my parents about my DL fetish last week (which went very well), and that was the first time I have ever told someone about it.
I think I need to make some DL friends first before I start dating. If you think about it: any time you have a breakup with someone, it's going to hurt and you're probably going to need someone to talk to to help process your emotions.
But let's say the relationship ended over my fetishes (that's my "what if" mind coming into play). I can't talk to any of my friends about that, because they probably wouldn't understand the fetish and telling them about it would be too frightening.
It's the worst predicament to be in. I can either a.) Keep my breakup emotions bottled up inside and have a nervous breakdown, or b.) talk to my non-DL friends about my breakup, lose a lot of friends, and have a nervous breakdown lol.
So what I really need is to spend more time on here and make some friends where we can confide and support each other, and have each others' backs when no one else will understand. I need help and validation from this community to help me accept and embrace this part of myself before I can start dating again.
I've kept this part of myself secret for FAR too long, and it's time to start opening up about it. Thank you so much for reading guys!